Polls: Society & Politics

When someone becomes a victim of a crime, many people will start to excuse the criminal or blame the victim without realizing they are doing so.

At the same time, many know they are doing it and continue to do it.

This is commonly called victim blaming. Both men and women will do it towards sexual assault victims, because they should not have been wearing those cloths or been in this place or they drank too much.

This is an attempt to shift blame from the criminal to the victim.

Many will say those in bad situations got themselves into it, such as trafficking victims can just walk away or call 911.

If they do not, then they are not truly victims.

I am not strictly referring to sexual crimes though, this happens with almost any type of crime. People who carry a lot of cash and get robbed, could be blamed. Why were they carrying so much cash, that is their own fault.

Someone who was conceal carrying, locked their gun in their car because they can't take it in where they are going, it gets stolen. They are a victim of theft and yet others will blame them when their gun is used in a crime.

Virtually any type of crime, someone will blame the victim.

Do you in part blame the victims or wholly? Intentionally or unintentionally. Do thoughts cross your mind, that if they had done or not done (insert whatever) that they would not have become a victim or because they did something they choose to become one?

The more real and transparent and authentic you are, the less people want to fuck with you, because theyre so used to fakeness, that being REAL become offensive.

P. s: Based on my personal experience

I don't understand the transgender community. I am aware that it will never go away. I won't tell a trans person that I don't believe them to their face. I understand everything but transgender; gay, lesbian, bi, etc.

I am a woman, and I am aware of that, but I do not base my identity on that fact. It is not what drives me through the day. I seldom think about the fact that I'm a woman. I'm a woman, but I don't see how my life would differ if I were a man. I don't know how people are fighting for equality between men and women, fighting for men and women to be the same in some capacity, and at the same time, think transgender is logical. What is such a change compared to the gender assigned at birth? If you are trans, please explain this to me. I would love to understand, but as of this point, I don't.

So, real life traffic situation that I came into yesterday regarding 'right of way'. Quick synopsis, two vehicles at a two-way stop intersection, who has the 'right of way'?

Check out the photo (actual intersection where it occurred) it has all the information needed. Let's hear your theory!!

I was super surprised how split family & friends have been since telling them what happened. Not going to say which part I played in this little scenario quite yet. And, remember this is not a four-way stop intersection.

#knowtherulesoftheroad