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Usually call then pathetic and block the account. No one can make me feel inadequate without my consent. 🤓♥️
It is something you should expect because you can't please everybody. Sometimes there is a few who will just hate you for no reason and will go out of their way to make sure you know that.
My advice, ignore. If its not a constructive criticism there is no point in allowing it to ruin your day and your self esteem.
Remove those comments or block them if necessary. Don't attempt to argue or reason with them. The more you try, the more likely you are going to get negatively influenced by it.
Typically it's a troll that wants to get a rise out of you. They feed off of that negative energy they are putting out so I typically turn the conversation around and turn it back towards them. Like if they said "you're a stupid whatever," I might go in with "I'm sorry you feel that way. You may feel more comfortable talking to someone who doesn't make you feel so angry inside." They want you to feel that way, but then you've turned it back on them and made it into them being angry as opposed to you actually getting angry which is not what they want. They may hurl a few more insults but if you're bored, just keep responding the same way like "You have a lot of time and energy it seems to spend on someone you don't like. I like to spend my time on my hobbies like travel, cooking, and watching movies. Do you have any other hobbies aside from writing internet comments?" LOL, I just have fun with it because it gives them no power that you're not playing along the way they want you to.
I had a large following on insta before it was hacked twice so i just decided to do away with it. The negative comments id just say something nice back to, nothing pisses them off more;)❤️
I also have a following on this site, go figure;) I just find it cute and comical, typical obsessive people. Dont let it bother you and just laugh at the losers who take the time
If it's a problem with incorrect information, I supply them with the correct information.
If it's a subjective opinion, that's their problem.
It it's an objective opinion, there might be some room to discuss the issue.
If they keep asking "why" and demanding that you "explain this/explain that", I ignore them after "two laps". My answers are clear enough that a reasonable mind can figure out the meaning. Or, maybe they are just trolls killing time.
Get the book Crushing it By Gary V. I'm gonna tell you now part of this book talk about hate online the context may be different. However, people will hate on others to make themselves feel better don't give them any attention because they're just down about their own life, ignore them and keep focusing on you!
The same way I deal with unimportant idiots IRL. I envision a giant red button saying "don't care" that I mentally push. They are just not worth it.
Now if it's someone that matters I will fight tooth and nail to win the perception war but rarely is that the case.
Just become a troll like the rest consider it a game, anyone who puts their heart on their shoulder/ego on the internet is bound to reap the most pitiful hateful side of the human soul, without our fake veneer of civility we wear in person online life lets people be the vile entities they really are. Be like a 🦆 and let that hateful water bead off your back.
Well I have been personally attacked on this site numerous times by people who don't know me in the slightest you have got to realize on this site or any site you are on the people doing this are losers and they would not say these things if they weren't trying to make themselves feel better.
It's kind of situational. Most of the time I try to find out what made them mad in the first place. People have yelled at me because I make video game levels that are too hard for them, but they constantly say its bad level design. When you ask them why that is and what they would like to see changed they often never reply again.
So I just ask behind their reasoning, that' enough for them to leave me alone. People can be very strange sometimes.
The only options that matter to me are the people who I know IRL (and even then not everybody). Some things online may sting but it's just some person who does not know me. This app may a be fun distraction from life but in the long run the opinions don't matter.
really have to learn to read and not care so much. It's so easy to mis communicate, for people to be mean, political fights. Social media needs renamed... anti human media. It's terrible. So I just accept it as people have their emotions, they have a right to that, I try to win them over to a better place, sometimes it doesn't work. oh well...
Just ignore them. I am in the same situation, although I don’t even have a small boom of fans. People, when feeling threatened in any way, bite. Jealousy plays a key role in it as well. Instead of focusing on their own miserable lives, they direct their energy in the only thing they apparently are good at: wasting their time away with hate towards others.
Keep doing you and understand that the s*** they put you through is their own bag of s*** and not yours. It reflects only who they are.
I just figure if they really knew me they would have better things to say. I know they are judging me without all the facts. So it doesn't bother me. I know I'm awesome.😎
I dunno, but one time this dude I used to be friends with called my wife a name online and then he coincidentally disappeared when I went over to his house to talk to him about it.
i dont care, the only website i have been criticized on is here. so i see if the comments are true, if they are i decide if its a character trait i need to change, if its not i move on. i take my criticism and turn it into motivation to better myself
If it's a valid criticism, I fix it. If it's mindless talk, I call it out. I only go to war if it includes sexual slander. Because that's real world damaging.
I get quite a few there's not a ton you can do people hate the blessed 😊 just keep going and hope for the best I hope the best for you too and your following 😊😊
Just ignore the hate, but don't confuse it with constructive criticism. They're people on the internet, you think their opinions really matter? Especially online?
Remember you're never as good as they say you are and you're never as bad as they say you are. Helps you disconnect from having a strong emotional reaction to any of it.