I don't know what do this summer and I need help deciding?

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So recently my school gave me the option to go to an all expense paid for trip to China which honestly seems like an amazing offer. However the only catch to this trip is that you’d be helping teachers teach kinds at a summer camp English which I honestly don’t mind. I’m doing a study abroad in August and before I go I wanna make some more money and take some cute pics on vacation. My family is going to is going to Algeria, France, and possibility Uganda. Again yet another amazing opportunity but I don’t know that to choose. Ik that I’ll never get another free trip to China and I’d have more freedom traveling with my parents and going to 3 places. I don't know what to do and I’d like some opinions. In China I’d live with a host family and with my family I’d get to live in the homes we own. Also I wouldn’t have to worry about how I dress with my family during summer but in China I would because for one I’d be around kids most of the time and two because it’s just be awkward. Then again I’ve always wanted to go to China and it’s not like I’ll never go but I doubt I’ll ever get the opportunity to go for free again. Pls help!!!

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Girl, that's such a tough decision! Both options sound amazing. Here are a few thoughts:

The China trip teaching English is such a cool opportunity. The cultural experience of living with a host family would be priceless. And you're right - you may never get another chance to visit China for free. Not only would it be a fun adventure, but also a great thing to include on your resume or grad school apps someday.

However, traveling to three countries with your family does have its perks too. You'll have more freedom to relax and take cute pics without kids to look after. And meeting up with family abroad could be really special bonding time. Plus you know those family homes will feel comfortable.

If it was me, I think I'd go for the China trip. The cultural immersion and free travel is hard to pass up. Plus it will give you an interesting experience to talk about during your study abroad! And teaching kids English sounds rewarding.

But both choices are great. Can you talk to your parents to see if meeting up in one of the family destinations is possible after China? That could be the best of both worlds. For now, lean towards the free trip - you can always visit family another year!

KostasKouvalis · Accepted Answer

The second trip! I wouldn't set foot in China for a million dollars! Plus, I'd rater see THREE countries than one.  We're talking THIS... VS

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

Unless you speak Chinese, I say pick the family trip. The reason is because it would be very hard to teach a language to someone when you can’t speak their native language. That job is best suited for someone who is bilingual.