Are these enough?

[Anonymous]

I’m going to visit my long distance boyfriend in America next year. Our anniversary is coming up. I’m buying him French chocolates and a luxury scented candle. Are these enough? I’d like to order flowers too, but I need to save up for a passport, hospital insurance, a two way flight and spending money. Should I spend it, or wait til after I’ve visited him? I’m on a minimum wage.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Most men don't care at all about scented candles. That's something women are predominantly into. I can't speak for your guy because I don't know him, but if I had a long distance girlfriend visiting I'd want her to come back into the room & without warning she's dressed in lingerie & does a sexy dance while music plays or strips out of her clothes while doing a sexy dance with lingerie underneath. Sexy surprises are what guys want. Of course there will be romance before, during & after, but the sexy stuff is what a dude would really want after not seeing you for a long time. You gotta think like a man. Chocolates are tasty, but those & scented candles may leave him disappointed. My idea will give him a surprise he will never forget. He'll feel even more luckier than he already does to have you.😉 Good luck, pack that lingerie & get your dance moves ready.

[strateguy632]

for the same money do not buy the candle and chocolates those are things gals appreciate. instead after you arrive go shopping and offer him to pick a six pack he likes beer or whatever "your treat".

[Asker]

My boyfriend is not a masculine man. He’s more arty and sensitive. I’m more traditionally masculine.

[leahzrc]

I think you coming to see him would be more than enough :)