Womansphere. Why the outrage over women advising each other how to look after their partners, eat healthy, raise kids ?

Question

1. Look after the men in your life

2. Stay a healthy weight

3. Exercise

4. Raise kids

5. Live a good Christian/Jewish life

6. Learn to cook

7. Don't blow your money

8. Dont cover yourself in piercings & tattoos

9. Commit to a married life

10. Don't cheat on your man.

11. Make an effort to dress well but modestly at all times

12. Don't over do wearing make up.

13. Educate yourself

14. Don't drink to excess

15. Avoid taking medication you don't need

I think if most women did this they would be a lot healthier and happier as would their marraiges and kids would be a lot happier. Would also help a lot of social problems western countries face.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

1. Look after the men in your life Yeah, looking after and standing by your partner is a good thing. This promotes growth of the relationship, close bonds, and feeling comfortable sharing things with them & being transparent as they would be with you since they understand the sacrifices, little things, and acts of kindness & compassion you bring to the relationship everyday. That means a lot for both of you and yield positive results.

2. & 3. Stay a healthy weight & exercise Obesity and health issues are a major issue in this country in particular and we should be pushing for a ‘healthier’ way of life, not an ‘unhealthy’ one. The idea isn’t to be negative of your body, push away all junk food, and to be all in on good health, but do it for you & take it slowly through subtle changes in diet, working out, and being the best version of yourself that you can be. You do it because it will help you live a longer happier also a much healthier life for the better also if you have children they won’t worry about losing a mother due to a health issue like a heart attack from heart disease.

4. Raise kids Raising kids shouldn’t be pushed onto or pushed away from a woman. It is her choice and her decision alone to make. Though I want to voice concerns: If you aren’t financially stable, struggling mentally, and are young you should probably hold off on raising a child let alone multiple since that can take a major toll on your well being and fall onto that child’s well being too. Something to consider, not saying it should stop you from having kids, just something to think about. Would say it to a single father wanting to adopt too.

5. Live a good Christian/Jewish life I remove religion from this and just say, “live the best life you can live”. You deserve the best and don’t settle for anything less.

6. Learn to cook I feel like a lot of women will already know how to cook, though making your own meals is important since you can feed yourself and be in control of your diet directly rather than just eating out all the time at unhealthy greasy burger places.

7. Don't blow your money Yes, you never know what accident may happen in your life so, you should always have a good pillow of money to fall back on. Ever heard, “save it for a rainy day?” Yeah a rainy day being a bad one that you need the money to recover from. Accidents can be minor or major and money is needed especially in a mess of a Capitalist System.

8. Dont cover yourself in piercings & tattoos It is okay to have some piercings and some tattoos, wouldn’t completely discourage it, though think about it long & hard before making such an appearance altering decision.

9. & 10. Commit to a married life & Don't cheat. you can always work it out and if you can’t, just divorce/put an end to it peacefully… Don’t play dirty.

11. Make an effort to dress well but modestly at all times Mainly in public, what you do in private time in your own house is up to you.

12. Don't over do wearing make up. Yeah don’t over makeup, though if you have a skin condition or blemish that you really don’t want people to see just cover it up if it makes you look good & therefore makes you confident

13. Educate yourself Always good to fact check, do your own research, and find information when you know your sources are reputable. If you’re not sure about something ask someone around you.

14. Don't drink to excess Very good advice.

15. Avoid taking medication you don't need Very good advice.

Agreed with pretty much everything.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The only ones I take issue with are 4 and 5. Kids are not right for everyone, and some people just shouldn't have kids if you know what I mean. Having said that, I do believe for most people having a family is the key to happiness in life in the long term.

And no, not everyone be Christian or Jewish. That's just silly.

All the others are just common sense, despite the fact that feminism has been trying to convince women otherwise for decades. It should be no mystery to anyone why women are less happy today than at any point in recorded history.

I for one am happy to see the rise of influencers like Cooper and Owens, who are finally beginning to offset all the damage done to modern women (and men) by feminist influences.

That's not to say feminism hasn't helped accomplish some important things for women, although arguably those things would have happened anyway as part of the natural evolution of post-industrial societal evolution without all the hatred toward men that has been a hallmark of feminism for a long time. Feminism has also done a lot of harm to both sexes and to gender relations. One of feminism's biggest downfalls has been the dishonesty that will never allow its adherents to acknowledge the harm that has been and continues to be done by the movement.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

There should be no outrage. These women are treated well by men generally as many belong to certain races or look a certain way. They OWE men nice treatment.

Any woman who’s only been abused and never been shown basic human decency owes them literally NOTHING.

It is time for men’s favourite races to wake up, stop expecting princess treatment, start giving them the king treatment, stop divorce raping, start making elaborate 3 course meals not basic sandwiches, serve them breakfast in bed like they do for you, stop being easy and promiscuous just because you still would be preferred over some good loyal woman who isn’t their preferred skin tone and give them these bare minimum things without BRAGGING about it because these things really are bare minimum when they keep making you the queens of their sexual preference. These girls are finally ditching their princesses complex so deeply ingrained in them as everyone including their usual white or East Asian parents and their boyfriends has been kind to them. Most don’t even know what a slap feels like let alone knowing what being kicked feels like. I think it’s time to STOP BRAGGING about finally giving these men bare minimum when there are so many women in other parts of the world giving them so much more than this and still getting labelled as undesirable or unattractive

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Some media influencer see a relationship between men and women as a war. Sexes polarization that is at the end self destructive because your butt won't be always the tasty ham all dogs run behind.
In reality it's a cooperation, you make him a sandwich, you cook him a dinner and you put his dirty sock into laundry, he repairs your car or buys a new one if he earns good enough. You just need to learn qui pro quo principle that is foundation of any cooperation.

Lliam · Answer

I agree with all but number 5. You don't need to be Jewish or Christian to be a good person.

I'm not sure about number 11. What does dress "modestly" even mean? Different people have varying opinions on what modest feminine attire looks like. And fashions evolve. We're not living in the 1950s anymore.
I think insecure and/or certain religious type of guys are uptight about their wives getting approving looks.

The only other thing I'll say about the rest of the list is, it should apply equally to guys.

Samuel75 · Answer

These list are supposed to be normal for women and I don't see anything wrong with it. And among the the list there are some things that is applicable to men like 'raising the kids' shouldn't be the responsibility of the woman alone and also 'not cheating' is applicable to men.
The advising is a good way to encourage women to be women.

loveslongnails · Answer

# 13 -Look how far down "educate yourself" is on their list. LOL
#5 "Lead a 'good' Christian life" -- so, follow the exemplary examples that Christian Nationalist Republicans are living? LOL
"Lead a 'good' Jewish life" - like supporting Israeli genocide?
#4 - "Raise kids" - because obedient proletariat worker bees are essential to the oligarch empire. By the way, if you raise educated kids, that's dangerous to the system.

What isn't common sense on this list is just indoctrination. Wait, but Conservatives say it's only the Liberals who indoctrinate. Yeah, ok... got it.

RageBabe · Answer

Gosh, women have been making their men sandwiches for centuries; it's not a new revelation.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah unfortunately feminism has made women think that freedom is having hookups, then getting into bad relationships and continuing the cycle until bitterness sets in and then for a time you start to think that all men are pieces of sh! t until desperation creeps in and finally getting older never married or in a healthy relationship, and either coping repeating the cycle, or some older church lady..

genericname85 · Answer

cause these days women have adapted a lot of ideologies and behaviorisms to avoid accountability at all cost. these things they're saying make them take accountability. and to these women that's like shining sunlight at a vampire. these women who decided to go that way will screech in pain cause they taught themself to never take any accountability. i'm not saying "all women". i'm saying these women who react negatively to that sort of thing.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Why the outrage over women advising each other how to look after their partners, eat healthy, raise kids? They don't want to do those things. They hate men, children, G0d and families. I do not mean to stereotype you. Reject that mind set. Be a real, productive woman. Real men WANT June Cleaver for a wife. Ask any guy over 30.

Shiprex · Answer

I chuckle at this list because of the blatant islamophobia when number 5 is reached. The rest are basically a codex for the Islamic expectation of how women should be in that society and those who are partaking of it, here at lease, do it just like that and seem to enjoy it irrespective of what the RW say, but then folk here are free to choose without pressure from "community" representatives.

Guanfei · Answer

Because this is just a war against men. They claim to be independent, yet also claim that men must do everything for them, while they should move a finger for men, including their own partners.
The relationship they want with men is what they'd call abuse if the roles were reversed

ProbablyClueless · Answer

As with so many other things; it boils down to ego: insecurity and feelings of a loss of control.

Parenting and marriage are two subjects that people feel insanely comfortable commenting on. They also happen to be super personal decisions that get discussed a lot.

A lot of people really really really hate any kind of insinuation that what they're doing might not be the 100% totally, indisputably correct approach.

ChiTown33 · Answer

No clue.

My suspicion is because some people view any kind of cooperation with the opposite gender as conceding something. Virtually all those can be applied to a man as well and are not a sign of weakness. They're a sign of a partner that gives of themselves.

fish5505_87 · Answer

lower your consumption of mass media, and you will feel better! No matter what side of the fence you are on. Go be you, and don't worry. There is a verse from a recent Morrissey song (2016) "Stop, Stop, watching the news, because the news contrives to frighten you. To make you feel small and alone; to make you feel that your mind isn't your own".

The name of the song is, "Spent the day in bed"

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

That would probably drop the antidepressant use among women to about 0.

Lilizabeth · Answer

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glennos89 · Answer

I agree 💯 with what you are saying about this movement. It would be better for themselves aswell as for men

exitseven · Answer

Most of the people on anti depressants are liberal women. That should tell you something.

Ariesman81 · Answer

I wouldn't have to keep traveling to Latin America or SouthEast Asia. I give it a 👍🏻.

strateguy632 · Answer

Because it threatens feminism. And it is fat shaming eventhough no insult.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Because you’re telling women what they should do to be considered a “good woman”

jshm2 · Answer

LOL, anything with Candice "race bait" Owens supporting it, is moral to oppose.

worldscolide · Answer

Probably because feminists veiw anything resembling a traditional family as slavery for women. It's stupidity.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t listen to Candace anymore , she’s gone of the rails on the crazy train

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

yeah no. let people do what they want, its not the 1950s not every woman wants to be js a wife or mom.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Ninety-five percent of REPIGLIKSWINE lads are fugly and flaccid !!!

WonderingManII · Answer

I agree. Thanks for sharing. :)

Dongie · Answer

What could be wrong with it?

Yohenis · Answer

In short mission impossible

Cameila99 · Answer

They wanna control you and your thoughts.

RavVid · Answer

Exactly so.

Sazidhassan · Answer

Why there should be outrage if not done by force?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

works for me

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