Why do women become "standoffish" if there is an issue? Why can't we just address it and resolve it like adults?

[macjets007]

Not all women, or even a majority; albeit at least 30-40%.

I understand addressing issues (no matter who is a at fault), but if you address the situation, and resolve it, you become so much stronger as a couple!!

[slatyb]

Women? It's not just women. There are just as many avoidant men.