Have you noticed how so many women can't handle talking about issues men face without being immature?

[Steven8000]

As soon as men talk about the fact that men have it harder with dating and hooking up, they start calling men a bunch of names. Grow up. My goodness. It is same with other issues men face. Women act like they are the only ones that can have issues in this world.

[OlderAndWiser]

" the fact that men have it harder with dating and hooking up" That is a "fact" to men who have a very obvious bias in how they view dating, because they have no appreciation for what women go through with the dating carousel. But women also don't appreciate what men go through with dating and getting rejected, and more importantly. . .

WTF does it matter who has more difficulty with dating?

[cookiecrusher]

If you really want to stir shit up ask them why nobody ever talks about pussy priviledge, while white, male, rich etc prviledge talk is everywhere 😅

[MinxDoll]

How exactly do men have it harder in the dating world? What rejection? How is that hard to handle just accept it and stop being butthurt. As well when did this become a competition on who has it harder, dating and hooking up “problems” aren’t an issue their not a big deal compared to other real issues.

[Honesttguy]

Trolling? You just did exactly what his talking about hehhe

[Mark_Dat]

Its easy to dismiss the starving when your own belly is full.

#ABUNDANCEMENTALITY

[MinxDoll]

@Honesttguy so rejection is a big issue? I would say a real issue men have is judges in custody court favor the women

[MinxDoll]

@Mark_Dat so rejection and dating is a issue? That’s called people not wanting to date u, a real issue y’all should talk about that men have is custody courts favoring the moms

[Mark_Dat]

@MinxDoll you're incapable of understanding the psychological aspects of rejection, as humans we all have a natural desire for acceptance. So when you're constantly rejected
(which is usually the case as opposed to the narrative of sometimes you win, sometimes you don't.)

It's very damaging to the self-image and value of the person. But like I stated earlier, it's easy to dismiss the starving when your own belly is full. Most women take a passive stance when it comes to dating, so they're incapable of fully understanding what true rejection and undesirability feels like. (unless they've been horribly disfigured)

And that's just 1 part of it all.

[MinxDoll]

@Mark_Dat well don’t base ur happiness and self love on other people, if they don’t like u move on there’s other fish in the sea, rejection isn’t a big issue it’s the way of life, what y’all should be talking about real men’s issues for ex telling young boys to not cry to man up etc.

[Mark_Dat]

@MinxDoll you're just proving my point. "Its easy to dismiss the starving when your own belly is full."

Once you put yourself out there and face constant rejection and have your self-image destroyed than we may speak again. But you won't. Why would anyone give up their advantage?

[MinxDoll]

@Mark_Dat dude what u expect every woman to say yes to you, news flash not everyone is going to be interested/attracted to u, instead of talking about being friend zoned for men’s issues talk about ones that r damaging like men can be assaulted by a woman and won’t feel heard/comfortable to get help

[Honesttguy]

You are missing the whole point here. He brought up 1 topic to discuss, and you basically just dismiss his topic as useless and call them bunch of butthurts, well you only proved his point valid, indeed now after seeing actual example i have to agree with his topic women indeed seem to be incapable discuss some of mens problems.
It doesn't even matter if its rejection or 10 other things, whole point is to bring up topic and talk about it from different angles to understand it better and expand understanding. Dismissing topic doesn't provide that value.

[MinxDoll]

@Honesttguy but rejections isn’t a gender issue everyone can experience it, it’s part of life not everyone is gonna cater to u

[Honesttguy]

You're the one that brought rejection topic up not me. Read his topic again he didn't mention rejection at all.

[MinxDoll]

@Honesttguy rejection is part of the dating and hooking up world, then what other “issue” is he taking about then

[Honesttguy]

Right now he was talking about the fact that men cannot even discuss male problems with female presence without them jumping in and calling names and saying its not bif issue that there are other bigger issues wich os exactly what u did, which is astonishing to me that you are unaware of what u are doing, its like u didn't think before you speak.

[MinxDoll]

@Honesttguy but that’s not male problems because every gender have dating/rejecting issues it’s more of a universal experience

[Steven8000]

It is much harder for men to get a girlfriend than a woman to get a boyfriend. If a woman has trouble getting a boyfriend it means she is being too picky or not trying. With straight men regardless if he tries or not, and regardless if he is picky or not, it is like a needle in a haystack for him unless he is hot. Also with women regardless how they look, they can get a boyfriend easier. I forgot to add that. Also everything I said applies to hooking up too. For you to not realize that, you are uninformed or delusional.

[Steven8000]

@Honesttguy she is delusional or in denial how men have it harder with getting a girlfriend and getting laid than women do with guys.

[MinxDoll]

So ur mad cuz women don’t want to sleep with u haha but I’m delusional ur using that as an excuse as men’s issues but it’s really women don’t want u 👍🏻

[Steven8000]

Your proving men's points. Look at how you answer. And your putting words in my mouth. I am talking about TWO TOPICS. Romantic relationships is one and hooking one is another. Two different topics completely. It is hard for the huge majority of men to get a girlfriend (one topic) and to get laid ( another topic), unless he is hot. All guys can get a girlfriend and get laid but it takes forever for it to happen. It doesn't take forever for hot guys though. For women if it takes forever she is being too picky or not trying. And please don't tell me how average and ugly guys get romantic relationships and laid. That is a no brainer. I have gotten laid and I'm ugly. But the point is it takes us forever for both of those topics compared to hot guys. Women regardless of how they look like have it easy with both topics and if she doesn't it is her fault (what I explained earlier). All I am saying is that men have it harder in these topics and you are being immature about it.

[Steven8000]

@Honesttguy look at her latest replies to me. She is proving my point.

[Steven8000]

@Mark_Dat look at her latest replies to me. She is proving my point

[Honesttguy]

Did she just delete my replies? she's still a child

[Steven8000]

@Honesttguy your replies are there man. And you say she is a child cause of the way she is being?

[Steven8000]

Men have it harder with the topics I mentioned. Period

[Razp_Sorbet]

If your response to someone talking about issues they face is talking about your own issues then you're an asshole

[Steven8000]

I don't know if you are calling me an asshole

[Razp_Sorbet]

Only if that's what you do

[Steven8000]

I don't do that. Are you on my side with this post or not? What do you think of the immature women that I talk about?

[Razp_Sorbet]

I'm not on anyones side. Everyone has their issues with the opposite gender. It's counter productive to take sides. I also don't see rejection as a bad thing, if someone isn't interested in you then why would you want to date them? I don't think you have a hard time dating simply because you're a man. There's probably much more to it.

[Steven8000]

It is harder for men to get a girlfriend than a woman to get a boyfriend. And it is easier for women to get laid than it is easier for men to get laid. You know that and so does every other woman. There are things that women have it harder with and things that men have it harder with. Dating is harder for men and so is getting laid. There have been numerous women that became men after surgery and thought they would have it easier with dating and getting laid but boy they got a big slap in the face and realize that dating and getting laid is much easier for women.

[Razp_Sorbet]

That doesn't make any sense. If women are getting boyfriends then by default men are getting girlfriends. I think trans issues is a completely separate topic. Women may have an easier time getting a date but it's not BECAUSE they are a woman. Probably has more to do with how they present themselves compared to men. I've been on dating apps and I've been approached by men 8/10 times they're shit at communicating.

[Steven8000]

The guys that have it easy getting a girlfriend are the hot guys, which are a minority of men. Women regardless of how they look like have it easy with getting a boyfriend, unless she is too picky and wants a model boyfriend or she is not even trying. Women regardless how they look like have it easy with getting laid as well. If they don't, the same reason applies. And for men, of the majority of men that have it easy getting laid, most of the time they are good looking guys. And what you said about how guys communicate on dating apps, women most of the time, suck ass at how they message first and how to keep the Convo going as well. They expect men to do everything so they suck at the communication as well. And there was an experiment done, in which a woman set up a Tinder profile, and pretended to be a guy. She put up a pic of a guy, and she started messaging women. She messaged women the same guys do. She did a typical first message. And she sucked at the convos. So women are the exact same way. And when she did this experiment, she realized how hard guys have it on Tinder. It is just that the women on dating and hookup sites, get so many messages, that they think normal messages from guys are boring and they become exaggerating picky of what messages they find interesting. The ladies on dating/hookup apps, wouldn't be doing mental gymnastics with what messages they find boring if they didn't get blown up with hundreds of messages every day. Guys hardly get any messages first on dating/hookup apps and hardly any replies. And as for the transgender people that I said earlier. They didn't tell people at first that they were transgender. They looked like they were born men, if they didn't tell you about being transgender. They struggled big time with trying to get a girlfriend and to get laid. They realized how hard guys have it with those two topics. And back to Tinder, I suggest you to watch the video of the 19 year old girl doing the Tinder experiment on YouTube.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I've literally done it myself and had the same amount of replies as I did as myself. But I actually made good conversation, messaged first on both, asked about whatever they pit in their profile. Basically the same results 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Steven8000]

You must of put up a pic of a hot guy on dating and hookup apps when you pretended to be a guy. Because I have seen all type of experiments done with dating and hookup apps and REGARDLESS, how the person that did the experiment was good or not with convos, they hardly got any replies when messaging first (when they put up a pic of an average and ugly guy). All of a sudden things changed when they put up a pic of a good looking guy. They got a ton of replies. I have seen tons of experiments. A lot when the person was good and not good with the Convo.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Okay then stop trying. You won't take anyone's advice on how to be better you seemingly just want to complain which only makes you more unattractive.

[Steven8000]

Ok let me change my face to make myself hot (sarcasm). You sound ridiculous. I can't make myself good looking. Funny how you all of a sudden want to talk about this when I mentioned the TRUTH how you must of put up a pic of a good looking guy. You just don't have the guts to admit that the reason why average and ugly guys struggle with getting a girlfriend and getting laid is because of their looks. You are a chicken to admit it.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Half of the attractiveness of a person is their attitude. If you go into talking to a girl unconfident, woe is me, I'm ugly you won't like me then of course she's going to run.

[Steven8000]

@Razp_Sorbet at least stop being a chicken and admit that it is silly what you said. Admit that you put up a pic of a good looking guy when you tried that experiment on a dating and hookup app. Oh wait, you won't. Your chicken.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I put a pic of an average looking dude. Just like you, an average looking dude.

[Steven8000]

@Razp_Sorbet lol cause women will date an ugly guy that is confident. Enough with the bull crap. Women will not date a guy they think is ugly regardless how confident he is and women will not date an average looking guy cause he is confident. When it comes to the confidence advice in dating with average and ugly guys, it is a myth. If that helped there wouldn't be so many ugly and average looking confident guys that struggle with dating. Women know that is bull advice too. There are tons of good looking guys that are doing good with dating despite not having confidence. So enough with the nonsense. And you probably live in a town or something if you put up a pic of an average looking guy on a dating and hookup app and still had tons of replies or the guy you think is average looking is actually good looking. Another option too is that you may have listed the guy as "6,2" or something. Once again, even with the whole confidence nonsense. If it worked, there wouldn't be so many average and ugly guys struggling a lot in dating regardless if they are confident or not.

[Steven8000]

@Razp_Sorbet or you must live in an area where there is hardly any attractive men, so women on the dating and hookup will respond to average and ugly guys.

[Steven8000]

Dating and hookup app

[Razp_Sorbet]

Jesus cry me the Niagra falls will you

[Steven8000]

@Razp_Sorbet it is the truth I speak. Confidence is a myth. Would you date a guy with missing teeth and that was ugly as hell just cause he is confident? Of course not. Stop spreading lies. Clown

[Steven8000]

@Razp_Sorbet you also wouldn't hook up with a guy like that either.

[Steven8000]

If men has it easy with getting laid, it wouldn't be called "getting lucky" when they get laid. They call it that because it is super hard for a guy to get laid unless he is good looking. Confidence nonsense you say is a lie. Women have it easier with that and women have it easier with dating too. If they didn't have it easier why aren't there loads of women complaining about struggling whereas there is way more men complaining. Enough with your delusions.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Because women aren't as pathetic as men and if we do complain we just get talked down on. Honestly shut the fuck up.

[najekim]

Haven't paid attention to that. But then, I have seen men making insults for no reason too.

[Anonymous]

On GAG there is a lot of toxic crap about men and women every day.

[emperor90]

Yeah i did notice

[Steven8000]

It is dumb right? Many actually believe they have it just as hard as men with dating and hooking up. Delusional right?