How do I ask a girl out for Valentine's Day?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

On some level its sweet but asking a girl out for the first time on Valentine's Day can come off a little strong, so if its all in how you pull it off. I would say something like,

"I have been thinking about asking you out for some time, but since Valentine's day is coming up I figured I might as well muster the up the courage. So how would feel going out on date with me?" Look her straight in eyes and maintain eye contact with her, but smile and try to be charming not creepy.

When you ask her out don't say going out on a date... specify what you are going to do.. Would liked going out to lunch and a movie?

As a guy, I shy away from giving gifts to someone even a card if we are not officially dating. Giving someone gifts that ends up not being interested in you tends to burn more then her just saying no to a date. And again its never a good idea to give women gifts before you ever go out. Giving them a card or something is tricky because it comes down to the message you write her, and if do ask her out do not do it with a card or in text or phone call... When ask someone out for the first time ask out in person.

The only time you ever ask anyone out in text or phone is when you are online dating... but if it is someone you see all the time always ask out in person and especially if its a first date. Once you ask her out watch her eyes, that I will tell if she's interested or not no matter what she says... the eyes never lie.

I have dated many women and all of them have stories about some guy who they thought of as a friend weirding them out by giving them card or gift. If she likes you then she will go out with on the date, if she does not like you then giving them a card or gift will not make them like any more and maybe even creep them out more than you just asking them out.

Joker_ · Accepted Answer

Lazily via a text message

Buntyp · Accepted Answer

Be polite. Try to imagine how someone you know who's a girl would probably like to be approached about that. Always keep in mind that honesty is always the right thing. Rudeness, for any reason, is always the wrong thing. Prepare yourself for a possible letdown and remember that there are a whole bunch of reasons why she may not be able to accept your invitation, and accept her response with grace and good manners.

Given that it's already so close to the date, you might want to say, I realize that you might already have plans but, if there's any chance, I would love to take you out on Valentine's Day.

Good luck, sweetheart.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

Send her a rose

northerngal · Answer

Be respectful and honest. Be prepared to maybe be shot down but you will never get anyplace in life if you always play it safe. But hey she might also say yes right?
Do it face to face do not do it via text or other social media... that lacks class. It will show you are serious.

cryscrys1 · Answer

Message her
“ What are doing this Feb 14..” I was wondering if we can eat lunch/ dinner together “
If she doesn’t reply you back she can go and and fuck herself. Don’t worry ~ plenty of cute princesses out there for you!

Give it a try good luck

De_La_BakedBeans · Answer

You simply ask, "Hey, wanna go out for Valentine's Day?"
It's be better in person, as it shows your confidence. Confidence is a big thing that guys need in order for most girls to find them attractive. Which is why I often wonder how I managed to get together with the most amazing girl on earth when I barely have a drop of confidence in me...

Also you get an immediate answer.

dtweed1996 · Answer

Well you could do the natural way or if you really have a heart you could get her in the mood and ask her romantically like talk about something you admire about her in a sentimental way and depending on the girl and how she sees you it may end well or you could just be a player something I would never do lol

aarnasen · Answer

Since you're under 18 I'm assuming its probably someone from your school or close circle. Just give her something nice (chocolate) and ask her if she wants to be your Valentine's date. Stay away from giving flowers because they are a bit too much, and also from her perspective she can't keep it hidden from her parents.

TheorionMage · Answer

"Hi! ... could I interest you in having coffee with me? I'd like to get to know you!"
(The worst that will happen is... she'll make a polite excuse to say 'No'. )

HOW LONG it takes her to FINISH her coffee is an unspoken indicator of HER interest in YOU!

Adam1978 · Answer

Same way as you ask a girl out any day. No difference except she will have higher expectations. So unless you dated her before I would avoid to use this as a first date day. Because you potentially haven't had time to vet her for redflags. You can't come with a coffee date on valentine.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Love is an amazing thing & when it comes to love why wait until Valentine’s Day to ask out that special someone, ask her out early, ask her out tomorrow. Be yourself brother & ask her out face to face.

Guy13 · Answer

Meet her with bouquet of blue or purple Iris in hand. You’re exquisite like these Irises. Is it possible that we can pick-up from here on Valentines Day?

silkjames · Answer

Get some flowers and chocolate hand it to her then say will u be my Valentine's mwa mwa lol but make sure it's ok to kiss her first other than that I don't know tell me what happened tho lol!

AndrésC64 · Answer

If you know that she doesn't have a boyfriend and isn't going to be busy, then just ask. Say something like "Hey I'm not doing anything Saturday, would you like to go out?"

cookiecrusher · Answer

Fake confidence and try not to care if she says no.

In that sense that yeah, you would love to go with her. But your life isn't going to suck because of it.

All this niceness doesn't work, especially for women under 35.

Be friendly and well mannered but not a bumbling idiot either

SmokyOne · Answer

Use your words. Give her a chance to respond. If she says no accept her answer and walk away with your head held high. It might hurt but she and her friends will respect you for being mature about it.
If she says yes than awesome! Have fun!

Anonymous · Answer

depend how you know her , at your age assuming you see this girl at school so is obviously in person options

Subarugirl · Answer

Guy: hey would you like to go out with my in the 14th?  Girl: Sure Guys: Great! Would you like me to pick you up or would you rather meet me at *insert place here*

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Just ask her out. Don't go buying all kinds of fancy stuff.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Have a ton of money on you and flash it to them. Otherwise forget it.

Zygum · Answer

Spend money, buy box of chocolates, box of top quality sweets and invite a girl on dinner in 5 star hotel, she will come out on Valantine day with you

SaoirseS · Answer

Just ask straight her straight out. The worst she can do is say no.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Get hold of a red rose and a box of chocolates. Smile sweetly and ask her id she would like to share valentines day with you..

Kritu_2006 · Answer

Give her a small cute gift , card and a candy... act mannered

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

“I’ll give you a buck for a suck-“. LLLLLLLLL I was just kidding by the way.

uwu_princess · Answer

Tell her smth like: go with me, I'll buy you some lol skins ;)

Anonymous · Answer

i think it would be really sweet to make your own valentine heart card, like the OGs and get her a candy bar

Catutigernos · Answer

Just ask, if she has feeling about you, then she will accepts.

devoygf · Answer

push her on the wall and choke her then say will you be my valentine, when she say yes slap her on that ass

Anonymous · Answer

Text, call, or ask her in person. You'd better make it quick so she has a few days warning.

Anonymous · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

You say "hey, you want to go out somewhere?" See how easy that was?

slatyb · Answer

Quickly, as it’s only four days away.

Waldoe · Answer

I use my "Voice"... some use email, some use Western-union

In_Trance · Answer

Ask her out the same way you would want her to ask you out

goaded · Answer

Don't. Ask her out this weekend, instead.

MountAverage · Answer

Just like for any other day.

Iron_Man · Answer

Do you have a car do you have money in your pocket

Naimgood · Answer

I usually use the English language

driven159 · Answer

you just ask her petty simple

OddBeMe · Answer

Imagine the girl is the Gag website.

wEiRdG · Answer

Be good looking and ask

TurningGraves · Answer

In a creative, totally unique way.

Anonymous · Answer

Message me I am single 😂😂

Jaylin_ · Answer

“Hey, would you like to be my valentines”

Nagahime · Answer

You go up to her and ask her.

Winterstorm212 · Answer

Flowers and remember it’s okay to be turned down

es20490446e · Answer

On the phone.

boobliker · Answer

same as any other day but add for Valentine

Katielovesitbig · Answer

Ask her to be your Vagintine

bean2k21 · Answer

grow some balls

jimmy2 · Answer

Just ask her

Paul09 · Answer

Show your wallet 😂

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