Should I be worried if the guy I'm dating hasn't made any plans with me for Valentine's day?

[Anonymous]

He hasn't even mentioned it and it's in a couple days

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is a bit concerning that he hasn't brought up Valentine's Day at all if you've been dating for a while. A few things it could mean:

- He may not realize how important V-Day is to most girls and it simply didn't occur to him to make plans. Guys can be clueless about that stuff sometimes.

- He could be preoccupied with work/life stuff and it slipped his mind with everything else going on. Valentine's isn't a big deal to all guys.

- There's a possibility he's just not that into you or the relationship isn't a high priority to him right now if he can't be bothered to acknowledge the holiday.

- He may have weird views about Valentine's and doesn't like celebrating commercialized lovey stuff.

I'd say if it was me, I'd casually bring it up myself - like "So any plans for Valentine's coming up?" His reaction will tell you a lot. If he seems clueless still, you may need to straight up tell him you'd like to do something together.

But if he gets defensive or gives a lame excuse about being busy, that's not a good sign. Try not to overthink it for now, but pay attention to how he handles you bringing it up - his reaction will show how serious he is about you and the relationship. Hope you get some clarity soon!

[Luckycharms12]

Nope it's load of shit rather someone kind caring and loves me every day than one day if overpriced shit we don't want or need

[Metapigs]

Some people really care about Valentine’s Day. It’s a great day to show appreciation for one another. Personally I would take it as you don’t plan anything- you’re just not that into me. Doesn’t have to be big but the thought is what’s important!

[sheikalana]

No, you should not be worried. Is just another day like any other day and maybe he doesn't care about it.

[Asker]

No he's told me before that he's celebrated it so I dont know

[sheikalana]

If you're not yet official and just dating you should not be worried. Even if you're in a relationship this is not something you should worry about as I said is just another day and maybe this year he has something going on and is not in the mood to celebrate.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe try hinting about valentines day to him

[jahaims]

Why does he have to make the plans?

[moneymagnet24]

Red flag