Valentine’s Day asking ideas: how can I make it special and bring back the spark?

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We've been together for 4 years, have two wonderful children, but things are feeling a little stagnant. I want to propose to my wife to be my lover in a way that will bring back the spark. Do you have any creative ideas to make this romantic and fun?

Altheavas · Accepted Answer

You guys have been together for how long? 4 children, maybe 4 or 6 years together if not more, you should have enough to information to know what she enjoys.

Maybe (don’t know your budget)
1. you can ask for family members to help, even a weekend romantic vacation for you two only to a different state. Fly her somewhere.
2. Even helping around the house more, helping or be more involve with the children, (I’m just assuming mother usually does most, not necessarily true).
3. Give her a spa day, a full body beauty treatment.
4. Do some outdoor activities.
3. Renovate some spot in the house, include her in those decisions, something she might likes.

These are some suggestions, but it’s my personal opinion.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Aww, this is SOO sweet!

You know? Best fellows I can suggest you chat with are @BCRanger10 @exitseven @ryanrhino and @OlderAndWiser … They’re sweeties and all very happy and faithful to their gals.

For my part, I’ll share that having kids does complicate things. It’s SO important to have family time, but it’s equally important to take your best girl out and remind her that before you were “Mom-can-I” and “Dad-can-I” (refs and nurturers/providers to your kids) you were young people in love.

Do something that allows you to just enjoy and appreciate each other. Something you both will like. It doesn’t have to be $$$$ or super fancy.

(Step 1: Get a reliable babysitter. 😂)

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

It needs to be personal and artistic , not commercial , cutting it a bit fine but put together your own basket that you create..

Fill with some things she loves , usual type things but personalized
Use red tissue and white celephane..

Right at the bottom in an envelope is a stunning card.
Something like " As the years have passed I have realised that our love has grown stronger "
You are my , most beautiful woman in the world

On one knee " Would you marry me - again , and make me the happiest man alive " I love you alone , and I want you as " my friend , my lover , my partner in life "
I adore you.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

I think I'd involve her in that and just do something, different...

Best way... is to forget everything, so you take nothing for granted. learn how to seduce her again...

There's no way around life that a hot fire turns to smoldering embers in time. Thing is, you don't want to go roasting weenies and marshmellows in a stocked fire, but in those embers are the best...

AviatorTom · Answer

Simple... don't wait for Valentine's Day. Do something every day to let her know she is special.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Why don't you suggest asking one set of grandparents to babysit for the weekend while you and your lady have a weekend getaway with no pressure, no demands, and plenty of time for love?

NicholasRedone · Answer

Recreate how or why when you first felt it - as did she - only works if it's a mutual memory and mutual timed spark

"Otherwise - forget it, I'm going to fast food name outlet" - or "I'm going to the movies* or even "I'm going to bed" 🛏️ 😴 .

And they can or can't tag along, if she so desires ♀️ 💍 what a clever Answerer me lol 😆 - bro whatever, hope you're relationship issues work or you find someone new by next valentine 😉❣️

chrissykerdock · Answer

eat her pussy for 40 minutes she'll love that

nawtee_me · Answer

I don’t think doing something for one special day (Valentine’s Day) is going to put back a spark like you want. Now missing Valentine’s Day will certainly take away any spark so definitely do something special for her. But what about this… how about making Valentine’s Day the first of a three day event with her. Since it is the weekend do something different each day that put her the star of your day….

HungTexan · Answer

Get a sitter that will stay overnight with the kids. Stay in a hotel, order room service, and forget you have kids and responsibilities. An evening of uninterrupted love and sex will set things on fire again.

brandon · Answer

It's ridiculous to attribute so much meaning to it.

Anonymous · Answer

The fact it has come to this point signals it is over.

ienjoylookingatgreen · Answer

Decorate a room with a bunch of pink or something and put a corny love song so u can both laugh

GAGsucksballs89170 · Answer

Figure out what she wants. Men aren't mind readers

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Tell her that how beautiful she is with a flower and candy.

teguy · Answer

dont wates your time

eclipse · Answer

nothing special

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Go ass-to-mouth on her.

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