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Guys, will you hang out with a girl alone if you are not interested in her?

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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)     When: Over a year ago
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If you know she likes you, will you continue hanging out with her alone?

what are some things you will do to let her know you are interested vs. not interested?


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What Guys Said

  • BlueGender
    1099  
    Over a year ago
    No.
    Maybe if she's hot.
    F*ck her.

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    • Over a year ago
      I don't think you should really judge a guy for saying sh*t like this. It's a total asshole move but you don't know why they are the way they are
    • Over a year ago
      Dude, you are one of the 95% or so percent that give guys the "guys only want one thing" label....you are a jerk dude, stop ruinin the repuation of most guys in the world, GEZ
  • MadHatterni
    4904  
    Over a year ago
    I would, she's still a friend and if its brought up I stand my ground and say sorry but I care about you but I don't see us having a relationship.

    if I'm interested I get close and talk to her eye to eye, if I'm not interested I keep distance and talk about simple topics that end the convo easy without mixed signals being sent.

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  • MrTinker
    706  
    Over a year ago
    If she likes me and I liked her back: flirting and baking food for her (if in college or something of the sort, work, etc) daily, I would also after a time so I got to know her better tell her of my feelings for her and wait for the hammer to crush me or other.

    If she liekd me and I didn't feel the same way. I would tell her something liek this; "Your a great friend and I hope to always be by yourside as you have mine, as a friend." If she cries or gets hurt becasue I'm her friend I will comfort her, but sex IS NOT COMFORT.

    I love hanging out with girls alone, becasue I feel more liek myself talkign to someone who is interesting and has a different take on life - while in the miliart I would always go off base and find people to talk with, just becasue it was another human, becasue he/she breath the same air, drink the ssame water, and have feelings and love.

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  • EarlofPuuding
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    Well if my leg accidentally touches a girl, I'm not going to just yank it away that's sort of rude, as sneakily as it got there is as sneakily you remove it. Guys who are comfortable with you and get in your space zone isn't doing it to be friendly, you are on his list, just not the top is what you your situation sounds like. If there's a cute girl you can be cool with that is kinda cute but your interest lie elsewhere, nothing wrong with becoming friends and getting to know the new girl, just in case? Just don't get too close or its friend zone.

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  • EarlofPuuding
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    Well, I did hang out with this girl I liked, that liked me, but I didn't know, I found out because she was jealous of this other girl that was getting too close to me for her liking. She wouldn't leave me alone, not in the stalker way, but in the can't read the I'm not into you vibe, we became friends, but I didn't like her touching me or looking me in the eyes because she was giving of this I want you vibe that was uncomfortable. I was probable very careful to be reeeaaaally friendly and sometimes mean so she would get the hint and stop crushing on me I guess the girl I had liked had picked up on it and avoided me after that.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Not really unless it was planned or prolonged, then it would be wierd.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yeah that's my def of hanging out 1 v 1.... 2 people doing an activity. Is it weird to you hanging out with a girl 1 v 1?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Oh, no turn that down everytime, I have yet to hang out with a girl alone, or anyone for that matter, I guess going home together doesn't count. I'm beginning to think our definitions of hanging out are different... My definition involves me and the girl being in the same place talking or w/e.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      But would you still continue hang out with her 1v 1 if she were to invite you out?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I would ignore the really obvious I like you make a move kinda cues, talk about girls to her (obviously I'm not into you), if something kind of bad happened Id laugh at her (omg my high heel broke), if she put her arm on me or got too close, Id take her arm off or retreat a safe distance. I guess in some way I may have liked her, just the fact that she was Indian and Muslim made her a wrong choice for a potential relationship, she's definitely wasn't as hot as she later became.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Lol, what are some of the I'm not into you stuff did you do? I'm just curious because I'm probably just as lost as that girl.
  • Regularguy
    1006  
    Over a year ago
    I personally wouldn't so not to risk leading the girl on. Not all guys are that considerate. If I was interested she'd know and I would make it very clear. Otherwise, if I sense that there is more that the girl is looking for I would let her know I wasn't interested.

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    Over a year ago
    Yup. When a girl likes you, it's flattering. Everyone loves attention.

    Signs he likes you- intellectual conversation, wants to get to know you personally, he'll make "moves" on you

    Signs you're being strung along- you come over and clean his house, or make him food, etc.

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    • Over a year ago
      Well what if the guy invites you to his house to hang out to chill and play video games. but also makes you dinner...and ur suppose to be friends but he makes a move on you by kissing the you? what's that about? does he like the girl or is she just gettign his hormones going.... by the way they were having intellectual talk about future and life.... he engineer she going to school to be Er doctor ect and fast cars and which are best and why...etc...
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      HAHAHA That's hilarious...girls really do that?!
    • Over a year ago
      Really? most girls can't cook ... and if they did hellz no I wouldn't eat it. Eating food made by an interested party is like signing a contract, you took the bait she got dibs on you. Then there's the weird insecure totally in love girl that would be like "if I put some *thing* (from you know where), he will be totally in love and attracted to me and we will be happy forever. yes that actually happens, not to me I'm too mistrustful.
    • Over a year ago
      Some girls make food for anyone...
    • Over a year ago
      I disagree. If I allow you to cook for me... I trust you enough and am interested in you. I don't just eat food made by anyone!
 

What Girls Said

  • Desert_girl
    25  
    Over a year ago
    I had many guys having zero interest on me hanging out with me alone, so, yeah, it happens..

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  • the-love-guru
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    Brilliant question. One not too many people think about asking. They go for the hopeful "what are the signs that he likes me?" route. This is much more direct.

    I'm looking forward to reading all the male responses :)

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    • Over a year ago
      I'd actually like to ask the same question: will a girl hand out with a guy alone if she is not interested?
 
   
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