My boyfriend broke up with me. We were in a loving relationship for three years but grew apart rather than together. We said the best thing right now is just to stay friends, but this just makes me want to believe that one day he will come back, but can't hang on to this hope (he obviously didn't love me enough to stay). I still love him and miss him every minute. Although its only been a couple of weeks since the break up he called me the other day to say hello. I meantioned that he left his watch here( it ain't cheap). He said he had no idea it was even missing and asked if he could come by to pick it up in the next couple of days. I told him that it may not be the best time(I'm still dying inside, never said that, but I'm sure he knows). He said it was cool and would call me for it whenever. When is the best time to give back his watch and a few other little things that he has left here? I have his sister's phone number should I just give it to her to avoid seeing him? Will it make a difference to him? looking at all his stuff is making me miss him more and it needs to get out of here.
just mail it to him, if you really are dying inside you will make it worst to be in contact with him. Simply put a postage stamp on it and move on. No need to stress. your 25-29 so you have a lot going for you. Love is hard but there's always a bright light at the end if you can stand up again
So weird, same exact thing happened to me only in reverse. I would suggest not being friends. if you still talk often or even occasionally, you're still going to hold onto those feelings. Also, imagine what it would feel like to hear he was on a date, or hooked up with someone. I'd rather not know all together. Sure I question it, I go nuts thinking about it sometimes, but whatever. When my ex left me, I had a movie of hers I had to give back to her. So I suggested she drive to my apartment, I'd meet her out front and give it to her. I also got her a card thanking her for being such a great friend and girlfriend, and for having shared the best parts of my life with me over the past few years. I told her how much I loved her in it, and I wished her the best. I still also hope out hope that one day she will come back. But she's changed. She isn't the girl I fell in love with all those years ago. But it still doesn't change my feelings. If he has an expensive watch, he knows its missing. I would personally just mail it to him. Don't put yourself through the anguish of seeing him, hugging, anything like that. It's only going to make it worse for you unfortunately. I wouldn't contact his sister because it will look like a pity call. So just mail it all. He will see someday the love you had for him, and wish it was still around. For your sake, I hope you find someone amazing who you can give your heart to, and you'll get it in return times 12. Good luck and god bless.
Give his sister his sh*t! Pack all of it up nicely and give it back. Leave a note telling him you want to talk to him but your not ready wait two weeks. (its called a black out) and if you still care for him like a crazy school girl at the end call him and tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same cut your losses. but if you just want to be friends at the end tell him it is possible to be friends with your x ass long as their is no sexual attraction left at all. and please don't fall into the friends with benefits crap its just a good way for you to feel used and have your heart ripped out when he dosnt beg for you back "and getting him back is the only reason you would want to sleep with him but he may just think he gets to have a cake and eat it to.
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