Signs that she is not interested anymore.

I'm going through this right now. I've been dating someone for 3 months and realized how horribly insecure and smothering he is. He is also always available and toooo nice in a way that is even more insecure. Anyhow, here is where I'm at and I want to tell him as soon as I can, but crap, I hate confrontation.

1. I stop texting and calling and only respond with one word answers
2. I don't do or say fun or sexy things anymore
3. I won't hold his hand
4. I'll avoid Sleeping with him or if I do, I need to be drunk
5. I hardly return texts
6. While he's attractive and nice, Everything he does gets on my nerves
7. I don't invite him out with friends and make more time for my friends
8. I don't ask him to do anything and make excuses when he asks

When you guys talk her eyes wonders around and look at something else. She doesn't give you hugs anymore. She's always smiling and happy especially when she's not around her.
basically you can really tell when someone is not interested anymore.

Why don't you ask her? As hard as it sounds communication is the one key item to a relationship. If that is the case and you both still care and love each other you can work through it if it is what you both want. You will not be able to help or grow with her if you do not know what her challenges are.............good luck

Personally, like what some of the others mentioned:

1)I get irritated easily with the guy and not enjoy being around him as much
2) the time spent together is more unhappy than happy.
3) I look bored and talk less.
4) I don't care as much about him as I used to and it will show.

Yep, that's about it for me. Try not to push her too hard if you really think she's distancing herself from you. give her a little bit of space to think about what she wants. things'll be ok..

Well for one I guess would be she would kiss you less; two she asks a bunch of questions about your past relationship; three she doesn't want to talk on the phone to you much anymore; four she is quiet when you are around and my last one would be have you said anything to her in the past month that may have made her wanna re-think things over?

Every single thing "babet" said is most definitely true. Every word of it.

When I was on the brink of breaking things off with my ex, I stopped having sex with him. I just wasn't attracted to him anymore - mentally or physically. Don't confuse this with just not having as much sex -when it stops - it STOPS. I found myself not even wanting to kiss him, it would bore me and I just felt nothing.

Here are my top five signs:
1. I get easily annoyed but things I used to think were funny or cute.
2. I start hanging out with friends more than I hang out with my boyfriend.
3. I pick fights, intentionally
4. I stop buying him little gifts or saying "sweet nothings"

Last but not least

5. I stop having sex with my boyfriend because I'm not attracted to him anymore (not to be confused with having sex less often...which happens sometimes when the "honeymoon period" is over)

Talk to her. I know one of the things I do is try to avoid the guy. Hardcore.

She'll be more likely to tell you what's wrong if you ask her, and (at least act like you) really want to know the truth. If she starts telling you what you don't want to hear, be the strong guy. You can take it. A guy I once dated turned into this blubbering thing when I broke it off. It was the most disgusting thing I'd ever seen. I mean, a few tears, to show you care - might show her that you do, really, care if she's not sure. But when you're crying so hard your nose is running and your face is red and you can't talk coherently? That's bad. Very bad.