How to choose between two guys

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I am now at a point  where I know I need to choose between these two guys I have been seeing,  I met one about 10 months ago, we met we had both just gotten out of something and we agreed we were not ready for anything serious, during the holidays he got back with and I dated other people this is when I met guy 2 we hit it off right away and  things were going great but I do not get to see him often because of his work schedule, and then about two months in guy 1 pop up and wants to see me I hesitated up until like two months ago  after getting frustrated with not being able to see guy 2  often. Now they are both in my life and I am getting to the point where I am getting feelings for them both guy 1 has been up front with me from then the get go and has been good to me for his type I did not expect it from him, and then guy 2 I get butterflies in my stomach and we talk for hours he is independent self confident  and I have feelings for him to. My head is all mixed up in one way guy 1 is good because he has been there in ways  but I know in the long run he could potentially destroy me  and guy two I can see myself with him I know it will be a long road  I feel he is good but there is so much unsaid with him.  What should I do?

JustDance · Accepted Answer

look for who can provide a long term "commitments" (father/husband material (if you wanna settle down at ur age), who is capable of fulfilling your needs, obviously the guy who is less of a jerk is a better choice, or who is less selfish/stuck-up/anger prone/drama queen/etc... who is more RELIABLE and HONEST. Its those qualities you should pick first. not looks or things that are short term in that sense. 20 years from now ull all be wrinkly lol brains over brawn I guess. who makes you laugh? who cares about making you happy? who takes the effort? etc

seldin · Accepted Answer

Why are you asking us? We don't know your taste in guys. As a fellow "sweet" guy I would have to say go with guy one but I'm biased and you shouldn't listen to me. What I would do is make a list of your perfect guys personality. Be really honest with yourself this list counts. Then compare each guy to the list. Hope that helped!

kilahwilson2010 · Accepted Answer

Okay, so there's this guy I've been dating for almost 3 years. We have had a really rough relationship. He has cheated. And we have broken up and then gotten back together. But we just recently spent some time together and we patched things up. But during our last break up I met a really nice guy, he's older but only a couple years, and he is super sweet. And he is head over heels for me, and he makes me laugh and so on. But I'm in love with guy 1 but guy 2 is so great and maybe its time for a change. What do you think?

VictoriaRain · Accepted Answer

dont let some people on the internet choose for you. it's your life. all we can do is suggest things.

which one do you really love? or are you still at like?

are you only with someone because he treats you good? are you with another because he is radiating a bright light? you must see the differences... and what you want the most.

BTW WHY DID GUY 1 SUDDENLY POP UP LATER? did he find out you had a boyfriend?

AlyssMaddigan · Accepted Answer

I can't help you pick but I can offer you this: Life is not worth living without risk.   Having fear means you have something to lose.

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