Girls, prove that personality is really what counts (inquire within)

Question

This is in response to women, who are constantly claiming that looks don't really matter, and personality is what matters.

So this is an experiment. I want women to respond to this post admitting that they have had sex with a man they consider ugly. I would also like these women to rate their own attractiveness on a scale of 1-10(be honest). If you can post a pic of yourself and of the lucky ugly guy, even better.

Since we all know that saying "its all about personality" is bullsh*t, I'm betting that I will get no responses to this.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

when we say personality is what counts, we don't mean that in the way you are taking it.

*i would not sleep with or date an unattractive guy that I am not attracted to just because he a good personality. would you have sex with an ugly woman because she was nice? come on now. don't expect us to do something you wouldn't be willing to do.

when I say looks don't matter, I mean if a guy is gorgeous but has a bad personality I'm not going to date him. now if we were flirting and had chemistry one night we might have sex hypothetically, but that's just out of pure attraction. if I am going to date a guy and share my life with him, he is going to have to be someone I enjoy being with and have a good personality and still be physically attractive.

*also in some cases there can be guys that you were not initially attracted to, but after you get to know him and you start to like him he becomes attractive to you and then you could sleep with him.

lekeke · Accepted Answer

ok...i admit I won't have sex or a relationship with a guy who I don't find attractive...i love history and the reoccurring pattern I find is that when people are deeply in love it is often cause the thought the person was extremely beautiful first ( don't bite my head off people I'm talking about like a centutry ago, but I still think it happens now) ...i rate myself about a five...and I only had sex with one gguy and I rate him about a 7...but there was this one guy I didn't find attractive until I got to know him then I found him hot...but he was so nice I think he was the exception...anywho I agree the whole looks don't matter thing is just crap to make ourselves feel better

Cool-Relax · Accepted Answer

Saying that personality is more important doesn't mean that looks don't matter at all. Any person, male or female, who says that they don't care about appearance on any level is in serious denial. Personality is very important, but there has to be some kind of physical attraction. If there's not, that's what the friend zone is for.

InquisitiveMale · Accepted Answer

Here are some things I've found out on this site. Most of the people here are single. The most active users are 16-21 and I dare to say 90 percent of the individuals on this site have little or even no experience in relationships and are socially awkward. Almost everyone candy coats the truth to receive positive feed back and no one keeps their mouth shut when they don't have an answer.

You may get the occasional time where some good advice or an honest opinion is given but when it is it's not recognized.

Want a straight answer that applies for everyone?

“I'm only interested in people whose looks are noticeably better then mine.”

Why settle of less when there are so many out there, who have the entire package, both looks and personality. Those of you out there who defy this rule only do so out of desperation.

MY opinion, not yours.

Cheers.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Here's your first response. I think in a way this is actually true. ALOT of people in general only pick partners based on looks or popularity not just women. However those people have yet to mature and have a lot of growing up to do. Not all people do it but a lot do...

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