How can I avoid getting teased or lead on by girls? how do I know if she is playing me for a fool?

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What are signs in which a girl is teasing me or leading me on? what are the signs that she is playing me for a fool? That is what I hate and despise more than being rejected, in which a girl teases me, leads me on, plays me for a fool, makes me think I have a chance to date her or something more, then rejects my further advances. I've heard from some people who give advice, they say that if a girl teased me or lead me on, played me for a fool, they say I was responsible for it, not her, that I let her tease me and lead me on, play me for a fool. Okay, so how can I prevent getting teased or lead on, getting played for a fool in the future? It's my new year's resolution to get a girlfriend this year, but I have been hoping for that the past many years but no luck.

_Kyle · Accepted Answer

Ok I hate it to but there comes a time when you just need to suck it up and be strong, try turning the tables on the girl for once don't cater to her will all the time make yourself the one who she should want make her want you instead of you always persuing her . These games are crap they suck but they are necessary on a subconsious level (spelt it wrong) they reveal who you are and how confident you are even if your not it has to be done take chances if they don't like you that's fine move on its harder for a guy to get a girl so if she comes off not interested stop giving her attention. Guys make the mistake of catering to a girls will and always wanting what they want you have to be your own man and respect your opinions, don't be an ass  but you have to show that you don't need them but you are interested make things interesting don't always agree with her you can come off fake. Once your in a more stable relatoonship these games with her become a lot less and are replaced with romance and being spontaneous its hard to explain but you should understand eventually with time. This is why complete jerks can end up with the best people,  they don't cater to her every whim. You don't have to be a jerk though be yourself just respect who you are more and don't let her push you around like that but always be nice and a gentleman you don't have to be a dirtbag. Sorry for the long message but its true

frustratedchump06 · Accepted Answer

Seriously, I wish I knew too, I feel that maybe you are not getting a lot of answers because girls or guys don't want to reveal their secrets.

bijbee · Accepted Answer

In the first place remember people do not always say or tell everything or reveal so they have always certain secrets they carry with them. If you date a woman seek a woman that is prepared to be open and honest with you about everything and the same way you must be of course. In other words no more secret for each other if you want a serious relationship. If you do not you always attract people that will take advantage of the chance you offer them to fool you. Later they call you for that reason the fool in a way as if you should know about that while they never told you their rules while they pretend or do as if they want a serious relationship with you. So you are fooled. Their rule is you should know everything but they forget that their rule is they should give the information what they forgot to give what is corruption. So she is a corrupted spoiled brad. And you should tell her honestly, otherwise, she will hold that against you again to say you did not tell her. I do not think she likes you otherwise she would have told you. Perhaps she likes woman more but does not dare to tell you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

want a girls perspective? girls change there minds constantly. and they may like you and then in the middle of there flirting  they turn and like someone else. there is no way to decide when she is going to do that or she might not know she is leading you on.  to prevent feeling like a fool try not to take your flirting too seriously and have some of your friends maybe see if she is flirting with everyone. that way you know if she is just playing a little game.

TheCheshireCat · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry men have to go through this.  I would hate to get teased & lead on by men, I wish I had some advice for you, but the only I can think of is that you should trust your insticts.  My insticts always indicate what someone's intentions are, maybe yours will too.

EddyMetal · Answer

Yeah this has happened to me many, many times. What I've seen from girls who led me on are that they called me sweet, would always be busy, rarely could ever do anything with me regardless of how early I called to make plans, didn't ever seem to be making an effort with me.

WolfGangAnthony · Answer

How to stop from getting led on? Don't ever give a girl anything. Material or Vocal. Don't tell how pretty she is unless she gives you a compliment, don't buy her anything unless she's done something to deserve it and for f***s sake never tell her anything close to/ or show her that she's the only thing you got going on in your life.

If the girl knows she's the only girl you're pining after or think you have a chance with she knows she has already 'won' she knows she can use your affections to fullfill her need for attention...but rarely if ever affection.

Signs you're being led on:

You call her, no answer. When she doesn't have sh*t going on she'll call you

Her saying something like "you're so easy to talk to or You're like a brother"

Her letting you think you have a chance but still talks about other guys

Girl will talk to you plenty, may even sound like she's into you but whenever it comes time to hangout she's always busy

peetK · Answer

They are just being nice to you. They have friends and lives of their own. Relax and move on to the next one.

random_dude · Answer

- dude, tease back, play the game... its fun like that.. lighten up, relax and have a good time.

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