There is this Spanish girl I like who broke up with a boyfriend of 6 years to come to england last September. Ever since she has been messing around and having fun with guys. Two weeks ago she asked for my number and we have been texting a bit, and at a party last Saturday she was holding my hand all the time and telling me she liked me. Later that evening one of her previous "messing around" guys threatened me and she told me he was an ex and that she was on a break with him. The next time I saw her was in the local gym where she walked up to me took my hand then sat down again.
we texted a bit this week and thursday night my friends and I went clubbing with her and her friends. She was holding hands with me telling me she liked me and her best friend says she thinks I'm a, 'really nice guy' same old cliche. But then she was with another ex in the club and when I wasn't around was all over him, kissing him. When I came back after buying a drink she was telling me she was sorry and I'm not a bitch and that she would like to go for a coffee with me in the next couple of days to talk things over. I'm not the type of person to let someone walk all over me and the next morning I received a text saying I'm so sorry about last night and want to have a coffee with you over the next two days if you want to. I texted her saying I'm not happy about the situation but ill go for a coffee with you tomorrow, which was the day she suggested, and I received no reply.
then the day we were supposed to meet, I saw her in the gym but she just blanked me so I never went and said hi and then in the evening I got a text from her saying why didn't you come and say hi in the gym (and she said I 'ran out of credit' that's why I didn't reply yesterday). I was thinking I could ask you the same question. Either way I saw her later that night and when she saw my self and my friends it appeared like she went o no and turned the other way, which one of my friends confirmed. Also I had replied to her text about the gym saying I thought you were ignoring me and I was annoyed about the other night to which she casually replied, 'i just went out for a quick drink, sorry your annoyed, have fun, see you for a coffee this week! X x x'
so I replied saying yeah lets just talk on the phone about this as I got the impression from her response that she couldn't care less. After receiving the response that's fine, I replied saying excellent to which she said, it would be if a weird guy didn't keep sending me texts. Good night! (quite abusive I thought) what do people think I should say on the phone? My friends all hate her and say she has acted like a bitch so I need some more neutral advice.
I honestly don't even get the point of calling her, let alone trying to think of what to say to her. If you talk to her on the phone just be straight forward and honest with your feelings, that's all you can do. However, I doubt that she'll extend to you the same thoughtfulness. It seems like she's just playing games with you and she obviously likes the attention from guys. Don't be just another notch on her belt, you deserve better.
It appears you're too nice for this type of women...... It's not really clear to what extent you like this girl, but based on her behaviors---i don't even know what is there to like about her.... So you should just forget about her, and find yourself another girl...as far as talking to her on the phone, sure you can call her and say, 'look, I don't like playing games, I like you (and maybe give your reasons why), however, I don't really appreciate such and such behaviors towards me...';as the last post suggested just be honest; this way there is no misunderstanding where you're coming from, and then she can't say you're playing games.
Word of advice also for future reference, get rid of your ego, and if you see a girl you like but is ignoring you, just go up to them and say hi. Hell, when this happens to me, I always go up, and tell them...'hey you! I see you're busy ignoring me, how are you doing?..' the looks of embarrassment I've gotten are priceless. Also, this will teach you to have the 'i don't care' attitude that is essential for getting girls---that's if you're interested in that of course.
Ha! The look of embarrassment. Funny, that must have happened to me more than once. Though most of the time we're ignoring so we don't look needy, or then again maybe we don't look that nice at the moment and don't want you to see us. ; - 11 months ago
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Well, if the person is out in public and claims they don't look nice, then, why did you go out to be in public, knowing that you will be seen by others? Even more reason to come and bug you! :d - 11 months ago
Question Asker
I like the advice, thanks, and yes I am interested in that lol - 11 months ago
Well, you don't always look your best when in the gym, or if you need something from the store so you go quickly,etc. Lol, nice. More reason? Lmao, aren't you sweet? - 11 months ago
It's a jungle out there, especially when it comes to the dating games these days. With almost everyone that is single (as well as some of those that aren't) looking for the right guy or gal, it's hard...
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
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