describe your favorite things about a black guy (other than the big thingy prejudice) btw I am black
Update: I understand one black person can be very different from the next, a black and a white guy for ex. can be very similar, so this question is just about your thoughts towards the black male stereotypes which to be honest, I don't mind too much...
5 months ago
black guys like to have sex alote so I find it kinda hard to trust them. and they seem to move things alittle fast. but for the most part they are good at what they do and are passionate about it. the ones with nice bodies are really hot.
It differs, I'm talking without any experience here, but black men are more of family, I like men who cares about their moms and so. Also, I care about men with a spiritual side, which is often found in black men. It's different from man to man, but these 2 features is what you notice immediately not to forget how devoted and generous he can be when loves. ;)
There is nothing sexier than educated and polite black man. It's something about the way they speak, they're always smooth and gracious. When guys (black, white, mexican, etc) run around acting like an idiot thinking it's cool, treating women like dirt, not pronouncing a damn word correctly it is the biggest turn off in my book. I also love black guys who are into rock music. Especially when they dress the part. I don't know what it is, maybe it's because I'm just really not into the whole rap scene. It's not that I hate rap or hip hop but I do hate the clothing that goes with the territory.
I have no idea why, I've just always thought black guys are hotter than white ones. I really can't put my finger on it, that's just how I've always been. I love dark eyes and that might be part of it, but I think another big reason is just that there is a tiny percentage of black people in my town so maybe I'm just attracted to the unfamiliar.
I used to have jungle fever, and always loved the look of black men. I love it when they grow their hair out and have those cute twirls - It turns me on. Also, if a black guy doesn't look good in water, he usually doesn't look good altogether. I don't really know why, it just is - Like every black guy I dated always looked their best when we went swimming.. It's just a huge turn on to see water on their skin. I also love black men that don't act different then whites - Because technically the only thing different is their physical appearance. I hate guys and girls that talk like their ghetto, and wear baggy clothes. The ones that take care of themselves, dress nice and talk normal are always the hottest (:
Also there's always a lot of stereotypes about black people. Usually the most that get in trouble are black and the ones that do illegal things. The ones that have sex all the time, and use girls for one night stands and have sh*tty lives. Well, I think those are literally just stereotypes. There's a lot of black men that are sweet and respectful - You just don't hear about them because they're never on TV for the wrong reasons. - 2 months ago
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Thanks. That's a very respectful comment :) - 2 months ago
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(most) black guys have style, they have nice and soft lips you wanna bite, deep voice, nice butt, most of them are shaped, like 6 pack and everything. I think its the same for latinos... exept for the legendary dick maybe. What I like about ltinos or black is their skin tone and the fact that they can dance any type of dance and charm any woman with a lot of respect. I don't know I fell for both of them and guess what... my boyfriend is half black-hallf latino, he is the best damn thing my eyes have ever seen... he got the lips, the ass, and he got that boom boom pow in bed loool ...ok I'm turned on hahahah
Well I have a white bf, but most of the guys I sorta dates were either black or dominican.
And these two guys that I really liked who were black, and so awesome! I loved the fact that they played sports. One played basketball, the other played football. And their bodies were so toned, and their skin was so soft and smooth. Ah!
And um...what else...oh! Their lips of course. And the way they carried themselves. Yep. But then again these are things you could easily find in other guys from other races. But still. =)
very physically attractive especially the body builders (the ones with muscles), steamy and dreamy like. it's very much a turn on that I melt! lol. umm, that's about it, but me it's really the personality I look for not so much how they look but also black dudes can be very sweet and caring and sooo sensitive (in the good way). :-)
when ever I meet a black man or boy the first that comes to my mind is that what is wrong with them. they are so twisted its a joke. they all talk about sex 24/7 most boys or men have preganated there girlfriends and chasing after more girls which comes to a conclusion most of the black men or boys population are useless. but the ones which I have met have surprised me a lot which makes me happy.
I don't know any black guys very well. But to me, they seem very nice, caring and polite. They also have what you call "charm".. They are very sweet. And they LOVE me! I don't know why but everywhere I go, every different countries, black guys seem to be very interested in me! Even in the streets. Lol I guess I have something that attracks them. One said I had angelinajolie lips. But That can't be it Haha... Anyway.. They are the sweet smart guys I think. :)
umm I like that they're more aggressive. their dicks are bigger. they have nice f***ing bodies. they chase you a lot. well at least the ones I know do. I'm kinda curvy so I attract a lot of them. I like the attention they give me.. umm lol I like the way they talk. but someitmes it hard to understand. &&um I dnt really like the way they kiss (no offense) they like swallow my mouth. & yehhhh
A black guy sticks with his girl.. they want to take care of you. Well all the ones I met oo they lips and body ..haha the way they talk, they make you feel as if with them everythang is gnna be okay. BOOM BOOM POW in the bed too... =) that's what I like bout black guys.
well first of I'm a sucker for brown eyes.. there lips and skin tone are amazing! and as far as body type it seems like most black guys I know have good toned bodies! I like the clean cut more than the kinda nappy afro but a little nappy isn't too bad!
this doesn't apply to all black guys but their lips, skin color, they're not scary about stuff, they know what they want [usually], they're thick [not referring to down there lol], style, and yeah... a lot more but I'll stop. now me being a black women could only find this man somewhere ;O lol but this doesn't limit to just black men it could be for anyone I'm attracted to.
My experiences with black guys: I am latina and I didn't like black guys because of an incident that happened back in middle school my "bf" went to the dance with my friend yada yada. Well after that I thought they were all payers and gave up on "them".
Well this was very hard to do since black men are very attracted to curvy latin woman. I knew this guy (black) for a year and decided to give him a chance. Well we went out for 8 months (broke up couple of days ago). He was great the whole time-the perfet bf. We never fought ,he Anyways he calls me up one days and tells me he has been cheating on me the whole time!
Then he calls texts me 10 minutes later "At least text me back so I can tell you something important. I don't have anyone else. The truth is that I'm getting deep feelings 4 you and dnt know how to deal with it so I tried to scare yiu away. but I can't."
So now from what my friends have said and from what I've experienced...black guys aren't really good in relationships and play games. He still calls me a lot but I don't answer. Any idea what he was thinkin?
He must have been very emotionally desperate to say those things, I couldn't guess - 5 months ago
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I've had 4 serious relationships and I've been completely faithful (other than dancing with one girl in a club), though I've had a lotta chances to cheat on my girl. I think that there are stereotype black men who cheat on their girl but on the whole, we are'nt any worse than any othe race or culture... - 5 months ago
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I actually wrote more stuff-but the moderators on this site censored it =(...makes me not want to be on this site anymore - 5 months ago
Well it depends on the time of black guy lol. You have to have style and swagga. A fresh hair cut or shape up if you have long hair. Yall always dressup clean But it doesn't matter what type of race you are if you don't care about your self and we can see that. Our skin complextion alone is beautiful but please represent yourself nicely!
What's with this? If a white person were to ask this question then chances are they would be made fun off or called a racist for sectioning the rest of the white people from the rest of the population. The colour of skin is just as relevant as the colour of a persons eyes, it's a gene... I mean really it's purpose is to protect against sun rays more than what white skin can. It doesn't make them any better or worse than other people... obviously peoples preference to who they date etc. may hinge on the skin colour and other facial traits black people have.
By saying black people are better than other races or stereotyping them to have more confidence etc just being prejudis and racist?
I feel you on this. I guess its to do with the fact that we have 'black' as a commonly used label in western culture, whereas other races e.g white people aren't labelled by their colour. If we weren't in the minority (in western countries) I would see how this topic could be seen as stereotyping... - 5 months ago
well everyone else is saying their rhythm so I guess I can agree with that! (but I have found that their are a few black guys that don't have any rhythm at all! lol), umm their skin complexion, lips, eyes, hair (their are A LOT of things black guys can do with their hair!), sometimes style... I don't go for the whole "BAGGY" thing. I like a dude that knows how to dress nice.. maybe like a polo or if he has a nice body, just a fitted white shirt. something simple! lol. as long as it isn't like 5 sizes too big! lol. but I think the list could go on && on!
In my experiences, I noticed that black guys are usually very 'manly' and aggressive...They also usually have nice muscular bodies, and a good sense of humor...
i don't think I've ever been interested in a black guy except once. His name was David. He had beautiful hazel eyes and I knew him in high school. He was a life guard or jr. life guard in the summer. So nice :) But he liked someone else.
... Wow the ignorance of the general population is crazy.
First off black men come in third place for d*** size... The hierarchy goes 1. Arab 2. Caucasian 3. African 4. Hispanic 5. Asian
Try taking those five races and looking closer next time... Also this nonsense that white guys don't know what they are doing is claiming a black guy has a different brain... Who knows maybe a black guy does know what to do in bed, but that isn't genetic you retards most likely he has had sex A LOT before he did it with you. Probably explains why Aids is getting so bad. Personally I love watching the white girls get knocked up and the black guy bails on them or sleeps at the house not paying a single dime. (I know because my girlfriend that left me for a black guy asked me to help her when she got pregnant from him and her parents kicked her ass out of the house. I promptly laughed and slammed my door) I'm so tired of this black is better bullsh*t that I keep hearing. I scored $20 when my 6 incher( Not erect) beat the black guys 2 and a half inches. (Also not erect)
Get off your racist bullsh*t hype. I challenge every black guy here close to Florida for a "showdown" stakes 20 USD.
Now I'll admit black guys look really good buff (not gay). They also can seem to wear anything and look cool.
Exactly my point, these questions are just stereotyping again. - 5 months ago
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Nothing. And I find the fact that you are willing to identify or segregate a portion of the male population based on skin color very prejudicial. Why are black people always so prejudiced? It seems as if you have a motive to keep racial prejudice alive.
Because it is AWKWARD to ask questions like these...you're supposed to ask "what do you like about (guys that act this way) or just guys in general, not just, "OH what is the best thing about black guys?" This is the first time I have ever seen someone ask something like this... - 5 months ago
I would squeak, mainly because it's just stereotyping again. Stereotyping is lame and prejudice if you ask me. The question people should be asking is, 'what do you like about the stereotypical brunette?' - it saves comments like these by being more politically correct even though the concept still generally sucks. This way of asking works better because as everyone probably knows that all individuals personality varies and so stereotypes don't really work when it comes to genetics. - 5 months ago
Also, believe it or not stereotypes are also not that strong... for instance what may be a stereotype of brunettes in one area could be completely different to another areas stereotype of the same thing. - 5 months ago
I think prehaps this question could have been worded better. The obvious intent of it seems to be finding out what attracts other races to black males. It's the comments that keep dragging the troth of stereotypical archetypes. Not ever Black guy has a great body, or a huge penis or can sing/dance. The question is fair, the comments are not. - 3 months ago
When people put negative stereotypes about you in the media all day, it's a pretty legit thing to ask people (on the internet, where else do you get answers this honest?) "Why do people LIKE me?"
Put yourself in the shoes of someone who is a minority. Right after gender, that's the first thing you get judged on, always. You're white (I assume) so you don't experience that. Asking others questions to understand why people look at you the way they do is something you just don't understand yet. - 2 days ago
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