If she has a cold sore on her upper lip on the second date, what do you do?

are you serious a cold sore ... that's not a very big deal they go away ... as long as she didn't suck your d*** your fine to date her ... just don't let her go down there when she does have a cold sore because you could get herpes!

The important thing to know is that a cold sore is a form of herpes and that it can be passed by kissing. If she gives you oral, you can get herpes. Or if you gave a girl oral who had herpes you could get a cold sore. BUT that's only if it's an active outbreak. Cold sores are contagious if they are weeping and open. My husband gave me my very first cold sore before we were married and neither of us have herpes or anything down there so it's not like it's the plague. You just have to use your head and educate yourself instead of listening to your friends.

Lol. were do you think she got it from blowing anougher guy, and she caught something. cold sore I get them now and then usally cause of a cold, so I would relax. Maybe she had a little cold over the week so she could have been comeing down with out. But I wouldn't drop her cause of a stupid cold sore, and of coruse your guy friends are going to tell you to drop her. You got a mind of your own use it.

thats really funny I must say but you probly don't know much about cold sores do you?
ok I get cold sores from time to time, I get them usually when I'm sick. I've probly had one once this year.

I think this is stupid of you to do, she's a good chick so you say you like her an there's nothing wrong with cold sores its not like she's gona have a cold sore on her face forever it goes awa.

its herpes and its in your genetics if you have the virus or not.
you probly don't have it an you could kiss her an not even get one.
its not good for her to kiss guys cus it might spreed on her face.
, just say babe I want you but go buy some coldsore cream. problem solved.

pure ignorance, right here.

you need to look up herpes. nearly EVERY human being on the planet has the herpes virus in their body. just because she gets the occasional cold sore, doesn't mean she has raging oral or genital herpes. those sorts of herpes are completely different from the sort that give you common warts on your fingers or cold sores. yes, it's contagious, and no it's not a good idea to snog someone with a cold sore. but in all likely hood, you've got herpes as well, but your body doesn't show signs of it. it's not something you break up with someone over because a significant percentage of people get cold sores at some point in their life.
however, don't let her give you a blowjob while she has a cold sore, because then you can get genital warts. in a few days, that cold sore will be gone and you'll have nothing to worry about, just be smart about it. but it doesn't mean she's promiscuous or has warts elsewhere on her body, it probably just means that her mother has that strand of herpes and she inherited it in the womb, just like her mother probably did her mother.

Don't leave her because of a cold sore! I have a cold sore right now, and it's not from any kind of std or sti. One of my friends has cold sore looking things all the time because he's on accutane, and another of my friends gets frequent cold sores because she has a vitamin B deficiency, and almost everyone gets the occasional cold sore. Why don't you just ask her about it before assuming stuff?