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I told my girlfriend that I love her and she did not say it back. Should I be worried?

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dream (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I told my girlfriend that I love her and she did not say it back. Should I be worried?

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HALLEloveesYOU
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HALLEloveesYOU (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
no.not yet she may just be thinking about whether she loves you too and for some girls its harder to understand
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jaclynjune16
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jaclynjune16 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
it seems to me that you are moving a little to fast. moving slower will take the relationship back on track.
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xo-natalie-x3
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xo-natalie-x3 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
It depends on how long you've been going out. Maybe she didn't think you sincerely meant it, with all your heart.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Do not be worried. My boyfriend was the first to say it. It took me a few more months to say it back. I wanted to be sure I felt the same and could truly trust him with my heart. As a girl, it is not something I say lightly.
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nobodys-angel911
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nobodys-angel911 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I don't think you should be worried that much...I mean once my boyfriend told me that and I felt the exact same way but I was too afraid to say it I don't know you though...it took me a while to say it back
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lorli-august
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lorli-august (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
First time a guy told me that I couldn't respond for several months. Unfortunately, I just felt pressured to lie to save the relationship. There was too much stress on a couple of words.
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rosynante (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
If she isn't acting differently towards you now, you shouldn't be worried necessarily, just be cautious until she is ready to say it back. You don't want to freak her out.
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Doyle (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I don't think you should be worried. Sometimes it doesn't need to be said. If you tell her you love her and she looks in your eyes and maybe squeezes your hand it could mean she feels the same. Or maybe just giving you a slight hug and looking at you could mean that she feels the same
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
NO! Don't force her to be in a place she isn't. When you say you love her and expect something back you are really not telling her you love her because you do (although you might love her). You are really looking for a confirmation of an insecurity. My wife and I regularly tell each other we lover each other, but rarely as a response to the other person. I tell my wife I love her because I do lover her and when she tell me I take it in and enjoy it for what it is.
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ionlife
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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
Run for the hills!

Just kidding.

Love should be offered unconditionally. I may be wrong but my gut feeling is that you may have said it with the expectation that she will express it at that moment to you as well which isn't right.

Many times a relationship develops at two different paces for the individuals. One falls quicker in love while the other needs to have some time to come to grips with it. Whatever the case, if you are both comfortable in the relationship and happy, don't put too much emphasis on words.
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