When he is super stressed out with life he shuts down for a few days and tries to fix the problem at hand. He shuts the world out (we are working on this coping mechanism ) it's unhealthy. I was really hurt because he blocked me from his phone. Since we both work a lot I havnt had the chance to stop by his house in 2 days.
I honestly don't want to be with him anymore because he keeps pushing me away. Love can only get a girl so far. Am I wrong to call off the wedding?
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Honestly it can be hard for some men to deal with problems head on. Some do need space. But I think it's unfair of him to completely block you out of his life when things get tough. What is he going to do when you two have a disagreement in your marriage? Is he going to leave the house, possibly even when you have small kids and just hang out wherever for a few days?
To me that would be the biggest concern, as when you have young kids (if you decide to have children), it takes a lot of work. Why should you be shouldered with all that work simply because of a disagreement (and then he disappears for a couple days, to cool off)? A disagreement, no matter how huge excuses anyone from their responsibilities.
I think you have every right for being concerned with how this might affect your relationship and future together. I'm glad to hear you two are working on it. But he needs to seek out some counselling in my opinion. It's one thing to need some space, to have a man cave or whatever. But to just disappear and block you on his phone for 2 days, that seems incredibly immature.
Communication is important. This issue won't go away once you say I do.1