What is relationship? What is love? What is relationship and love? What are their connections toward these two elements? It is to give and to take process, to love and to care, to receive and to contribute. What contribution does a relationship gives? -LOVE. What does love receives from a relationship? Care, Attention, and Intimacy.
A relationship is indeed romantic but does it an easy thing to handle? As a teenage girl before, I faced that, beside you have to tell them you love them, there are events like intimacy/sex, giving gifts, etc. But these are just the contribution of a relationship. And what does love roles in a relationship? It was to trust and to care, to give attention, to fight for your love and so forth but what if one sided ONLY of your relationship fights for this? And there is no sense of understanding or TRY to understand toward both partners? SELFISH, FLIRT, etc, this is what we called the cause of every MISUNDERSTANDING problems, and the effect is FIGHT, CURSE and finally FINISH. So, how a relationship can be well grounded and have a strong based if there is no mutual process of to give and to take, to receive and to contribute?
So this is the complication of a relationship. It was not only to love and to love solely. It was not even called love if there has no contribution and to receive process. Contribution is to sacrifice, to accept your partner indifferent, to forgive the imperfections, to love their weaknesses. And it was not correct to say if the visible contribution is as by having a nice body and a beautiful face, these factors are second elements where you attracted to their strength and perfection but it was not factors where the love can survive. How beautiful you are or well build your body is still have the reason to break up.
Therefore, relationship matters are hard to understand. It could be small things where fights can occur and it could be ridiculous things where it also could be the cause of the break up. So relationship is not an easy thing, it needs a good communication followed by understanding and it should be IN LINE by the respond and the message you received. It also needs a creative intimacy skill and the satisfaction of the result of your creativity. The girl should be good in cooking as marriage/ wife/ girlfriend material (Supposed to be), and also to be good in creativity of home décor (Traditional/Classic). And the guy should be responsible in many areas of his life to be as the breadwinner, to be as a successful man, to be as a husband/ marriage material toward their partner. And this is called RELATIONSHIP. But now a day, modern ways of relationship are applied where I bravely to say is inappropriate, so how a harmony long-lasting loving relationship can be build?-Reflection.