Introverted men, rejoice! For I've decided to share a secret but obvious way of doing well at clubs bars and parties even if you aren't a naturally extrovert.
An more introverted person is going to spend more time inside their head. He or she is going to take more "warm up" time to get out of the imagination and thought and into the world around them. It doesn't matter if they are amazingly charismatic and kill it at social gatherings...if they don't go out regularly they will just not often be "feeling it." At first...
Such is the need for the "warm up girls." They are simply girls that are the calibur you'd like to talk to, but you have no intention of "getting them." Instead, you go into the interaction knowing you will get blown out. You expect it. You even WANT IT. This is because you know that as you warm up you get yourself into a state that can't be faked or forced. You are becoming one with your social senses. You are becoming alive to the party.
The two thoughts that are going through your head are a) are you seriously just writing a take about just talking to girls and failing? Well, the thing about confidence and "oneness" with social setting aren't always the same thing. You think it's just a confidence issue, but it's sometimes just an issue of being out of the zone. As an introvert, you just don't enjoy people that much and that's the honest truth of it. You don't live to hang out with your friends. To suggest a thought is deserving of mocking laughter not serious consideration. Yet, you want to "pull off" a great night when you want to. You want to attract the girl of your dreams when you want then fall into a book the next moment.
The Warm Up Girls don't mind being warm up girls and will do wonders to your level of "on-ness." It's a sort of energetic charisma which is infectious. Not only will you have the success you want, but even girls aside you'll feel like you just did an incredible line of cocaine or for my non-drug using brethern, you'll feel like you can conquer the world.
The important thing again is to not to go down after rejection but to go up. With each girl you are getting hotter and hotter and more and more in your zone. You are feeling the party more and more you are feeling yourself more and more and then you'll be feeling her and her and her. Yes, a very naturally extroverted male can simply arrive in this state and live in this state, but he's also most times an idiot since reading Tolstoy gives him a headache.
Live free. Adapt the World to Your Strengths. And Conquer.