Texting guide for Guys

MrMystery28

Texting is a game of tennis!


Texting guide for Guys


1. When you text her wait for her reply


Just like a game of tennis when you hit the ball over the net you have to wait for the ball to be hit back over the net to you.


2. Only use 1 ball at a time


There is 2 players in our game of tennis. The guy and the girl. They use 1 ball and 1 ball only. This means that when you send a text you only send 1 text and 1 text only.


Example of wrong.


Guy: Hey whats happening


Guy: Hello ?


Guy: Guess your busy.


Girl: Sorry only just saw your text.


Example of right.


Guy: Hey whats happening


Girl: Hey nothing much and you ?


This still applies if she has read your text but has not replied. The ball is still in her court. So you have to wait for her to hit it back over the net.




Don't over do it


Texting guide for Guys


1. Dont write essays. Do keep it simple!


2. Dont try so hard


Do not try so hard gentlemen. Stop writing stories and stories of what you did today.


Remember keep it simple.


When you write these wonderfull A+ essays with perfect storyline you are coming on too strong for the girl. She is immeddialty thinking wow this guy must like me if he is telling me this much and taking so much time to write this TEXT MESSAGE. You are killing your mystery by just openely telling her what you did instead of letting her ask you. Woman Love Mystery ! They love to investigate and figure out things about you ! You should be a mystery to her. Remember Woman are curious creatures. So by you telling her all this stuff over text your leaving nothing for her to be curious over.


Dont kill the mystery


3. Dont text everyday


When you text her everyday you become boring and predictable. When its predictable there is no more mystery. What did i say before? O yea thats right Dont kill the mystery. If you text her everyday you dont leave her to wonder about you. These thoughts "Who is he with ? " "What is he doing?" "Why haven't i heard from him yet?" They won't enter a girls mind if your texting her everyday. So stop trying so hard and leave her alone for a bit. She won't forget you if you dont talk to her for a few days. She will instead miss you and make her wonder about you and be curious. This is a good thing. And besides you should be busy working on something that you love. Fix the shed if you have to. Be busy it will make you feel like a man.




Dont be so sexual


1. Stop trying to "Turn her on" over text.


This does not work.


You telling her your going to lick her neck does nothing but make her think " Arghh they are all the same" You dont want to be the same. Because then you are killing the mystery !


Dont kill the mystery.


If you are the same as the other guys then what does she have left to figure out about you. Nothing ! isn't that boring. So stop just stop trying to make a bedroom out of your words. Unless you are E. L. James's brother then dont try being sexual because chances are you will not succeed in turning her on. You do want to succeed right ? I will show you how later...


2.) What if she is being sexy mexy on the texts?


Think about what she will be doing if you were together ?


So get together.




Be direct and to the point


Confidence is not only shown in person gentlemen.


1. If you are texting a girl chances are you like her. But i have news for you. No matter how great your writing is this won't make her feel more attracted to you. That is done in person.



To be self-confident is to be secure in yourself and your abilities.



So instead of doing what most guys do which is beat around the bush. Yea yea beat around the bush and text her all day long looking for signs wheter or not she is intrested... Looking for hints. Just all day long. Not anymore!


You are going to be confident and sure of yourself.



YOU ARE NOT


You are not going to beat around the bush.


You are not going to wait for signs.


You are not going to have useless text conversations.



YOU ARE


You are going to be direct.


You are going to be confident.


You are going to be quick and desisive.



Let me introduce to you The Game Changer.


"Hey i would like to see you, when are you free ? "


That is it gentlemen. When you are texting a girl you are going to ask her out on a date. You will do this quickly. Dont have a bs conversation first.


Be direct and to the point.


How do i do that ?


"Hey i would like to see you, when are you free ? "


You will wait for her to tell you and then you will set a time that you will either meet her at a place or pick her up.




VERY IMPORTANT


After you have set the date you will then get off the phone.


You no longer need to talk.. you have a date set and can talk there. If you talk before the date then you may run the risk of running out of things to say on the date. You are the man so you steer the conversation. So dont shoot yourself in the foot.


Example of wrong.


Guy: Hey whatsup


5mins later


Girl: Nothing much just finished watching my show wbu.


8 mins later


Guy: Just got home you will never guess what happend to me today ?


10 mins later


Girl: What?


15 mins later


Guy: Blah blah blah


10 mins later


Girl: Blah blah blah


7 mins later
Guy : Blah blah blah


20 mins later


Girl Blah blah blah


10 mins later


Guy: oh haha .Hey when are you free to get together i want to see you ?


Did you see how long that took ? Dont be this guy.


Instead


Example of Right


Guy: Hey how is it going.


5mins later


Girl: Good and you ?


2mins later


Guy: Good hey i want to see you, when are you free to get together?


You have just set yourself apart from all the other guys out there.




Leave conversation for when you are in person


Girls like to talk.


Lets look at how texting conversations normally go.


Guy : So you are born in california ?


Girl : Yea i was raised there too.


Guy : What did you like about it ?


Girl : It was just sunny and fun.


Guy : O really ? What was fun about it ?


Girl : Oh you know just normal childhoods. Running and playing with friends.


Now lets look at how this same convo would have gone in person.


Guy : So you are born in california ?


Girl : Yea i was raised there too. I love it there! It was always so sunny and when me and my friend go to paly outside we always had to wear sunscreen. hahaha i always tried to sneak out of the house before my Mom could stop me so i dont have to put it on.


Guy : Haha what did you and your friends do ?


Girl : hahaha we use to play this game called cat and mouse. Basicly its where .... .... ... .. .


See how much was said in a way shorter space of time and it makes the conversation more valueble and potentially connectful that was compared to doing it over text?. Woman want to connect with you. So leave those conversations for when you are in person.




When she texts you first


When she texts you first. You simply set a date


Because she texted you first she wants to see you. Why ? Well she was thiking about you before she sent the text. She wants to talk to you since she reached out.


So because you are confident you are going to set a date.


Again


YOU ARE NOT


You are not going to beat around the bush.


You are not going to wait for signs.


You are not going to have useless text conversations.


YOU ARE


You are going to be direct.


You are going to be confident.


You are going to be quick and desisive.



You will respond with. "Hey I would like to see you. When are you free to get together ?"


Max 2 to 3 texts then you will ask her when she is free.


Set the date and get of the phone.


And remember dont participate in any bs useless text conversation.



There you go gentlemen!


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