4 Things Women Do To Seriously Turn Off Men

4 Things Women Do To Seriously Turn Off Men

1) BAD IN BED

4 Things Women Do To Seriously Turn Off Men

This is a less obvious one because the general opinion is that the man is mainly responsible for good sex. This is true in one respect, but, on another, women are even more responsible. A woman who is nervous and uncomfortable may be too dry. Her body might be too stiff. The negative emotional energy she gives off might be break the immersion of sex. On a more crass note, her body may be sexually tempting when dressed up, but when naked is for some reason repulsive. All of these things contribute to him not having a great time in bed even if he is able to come.

2) DON'T LISTEN

I think it can be generally said that it's usually a turn off when one gender doesn't exhibit the main qualities most strongly associated with it. When a girl is too wrapped up in herself and her own problems and will talk for hours about herself that alone is a bit of a problem. But, when she doesn't listen to even a single problem from the guy and instead either tunes him out or simply waits for him to finish so she can talk about herself again--it's honestly heartbreaking. You can say that it's not right that women are expected to listen more than men and we men can complain that we're always expected to be the great protectors but that doesn't change anything.

3) ARE DISINTERESTED

I get it. Women slowly become aware of a male's attractiveness. He can reach almost godlike status in her eyes after years of seeing his many layers. But, in the beginning, he is nothing to her and her acting as such builds a resentment in him that plays out later. Put more simply, if you flake on a guy a bunch of times, choose to lay on your couch and watch netflix instead of go to coffee with him on his one day off, or talk about other guys with him--do yourself a favor and just go ahead and friendzone him. A lot of times a girl's attraction will multiply itself, but, by that time, the guy remembers what a jerk she was and even though he won--he got her--he always remembers. This can often lead to the dreaded power reversal where the once omnipotent girl is now blowing up his phone, while he's considering other options.

4) ACT LIKE BRATS

Some guys, especially if they're older, don't mind bringing the girl back to reality every now and again. However, "bratty behavior" like saying you're fine with the expectation that the guy continue to ask you what's wrong until you finally answer, never being able to accept or even consider criticism, or rationalizing selfish behavior as "that's just the way you are" will seriously piss a guy of substance off. Getting to the maturity level where you can distinguish between normal and bratty behavior in a woman is like seeing the matrix--nothing is the same. You can see how childish she is and frustrates you that you are essentially dating someone who refuses to grow up. If a guy is a well rounded, great guy who has his life together then, more than likely, he will have no time for your bs.


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What Girls Said 4

  • Might just be me, but your take on that sounds pretty cynic. . .

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  • maybe

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    • are you saying you know what turns off men more than me?

  • How can a girl be loose? Do u get loose after pregnancy and stuff like that?

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    • A girl can be loose or tight by nature, just like men's penis sizes, it the female equivalent.

    • vaginas vary JUST AS MUCH, if not more than penises... take outer labia-they can vary from very tiny like tight thin lips, to be thick hanging lips... so just because the vulva isn't visible doesn't mean it doesn't vary. However you can tighten yours doing kegel exercises if you're concerned. I recommend this anyway if you wish to be good in bed-why leave anything to chance, that's my motto... use every angle there is if that matters to you.

  • The only thing on this take that applies to me is acting like a brat.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Well all you said, can be said about men too, it's all about being a nice person.

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  • 2 and 3. when that shit happens, i dont even friendzone them

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  • Great stuff, but You forgot:

    1. Initiates a text conversation. Reads your response (blue ticks), then proceeds to be online texting others, with last seen status viewable. Responds to your message a century later expecting you to respond promptly after her impolite action.
    2. Initiates a text conversation. Reads and blue ticks. Never responds back. Wtf?
    3. Mind games with texts. Takes ages to respond.
    4. Constantly changes a time of a meeting
    5. Invites other people last minute to a catchup between you.

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