I'm a white. My crush who is also a white left me for an ugly Asian girl. She's short, small boobs, small eyes, flat nose, can't sleep English properly, etc. What about Asian girls that White men are so into? I don't get it. This isn't the only case. I've seen lots of white guys with Asian girls.
What about Asian girls that White men like so much?
What Guys Said 37
There are different perspectives of beauty in this world. He probably thinks she's beautiful. Just because you can't see her appeal doesn't mean she doesn't have any.30
Well Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so maybe he finds all those things attractive
Small boobs are not bad at all, only girls obsess with big boobs guys are okay with anything
Guys love short girls because they can feel more protective of her
Small eyes and flat nose: Now you're just being picky about little things
Maybe she has a better personality than you and when I say maybe I mean she does because if you're talking that badly about a girl you don't even know that goes to show a lot about you, not trying to be mean but just want to show you what you're apparently not seeing5
My first thought of him or another guy pursuing a girl wouldn't be that it's entirely because of her race. Did he say it's because she's Asian?
Beauty can be very subjective though. You may not see their beauty but obviously a lot of guys find their commonly short height, boobs, and facial features--among lots of other things--attractive. I'm not sure really how to describe attraction to you.7
I wouldn't be surprised if he left your for your attitude aswell.
Not to be rude, but it's what has to be said.
Each their own preference. If he is attracted to them, then so be it. Boobs, length and facial structure says nothing about the person him/herself.
Also, a crush can't "Leave" you when he was never with you to begin with.
That being said, I understand why he likes Asians.5
I think... East Asian girls have strong fetish for white men. They will do anything for white man. No girls of other races have that fetish which east Asians girls tend to have.
East Asian girls even acknowledge openly that they prefer "white" Caucasian over their own race.'5
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Okay, let's consider your description.
-short, which is good, I like short girls
-small boobs, which is very good, I like small breasts
-small eyes, which is par for the course with Asian girls
-flat nose, also fairly standard.
-can't sleep English properly, pot calling kettle black much?
Asian girls look small, feminine and delicate. They also look young pretty much up until they hit menopause.
If you use Google you'll find far more detailed explanations as to why this is the case than I can be bothered to paraphrase here.3
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Oh look the little girl is pissed that a guy doesn't like her. Honestly get over yourself, the guy isn't into you. And I have a feeling it has more to do with your personality than anything else.9
Maybe he chose her over you because she isn't a cunt?6
Asian girls are not ugly. There so cute and lovable. I love a short. Asian girl. Small boobs are amazing to me. not to small though. Um not to be mean. Take no offense you might be this way because your feeling are hurt but you seem like a b. i. t. c. h. And you have classic. White girl syndrome. Think that every guy should want you and when they don't you guys get angry. There's. Beauty. In every. One. White girls are like 4th on my list of hot girls. Asian are 3rd8
"can't sleep English properly" that irony. ;)
Aren't Asian girls sterotypically viewed as quiet and passive? They are supposedly more sexual?
Maybe Asian women are just his preference?5
Oh you mad? Continue to be mad.8
I'm Caucasian, really proud to be white, sometimes I used to sound a bit racist towards other race. Moved to America 1 year ago and my world totally changed. Never saw a Asian man/women in the street besides tv back in my country so when I came here , everything Asian was exotic to me, including Asian women. After a while after being with some of them my mind totally changed. First of all, ist true that Asian women have a fetish towards white man , it happens to me every day of my life. Second I never gonna date Asian girls anymore in my life. 1. They're really nasty they never shave, I like a nice shaved vagina where I can lick in and out, and Asian women can't offer that pleasure to me. 2. I like to dominate and make girls crave for me, but in Asian women there's nothing to dominate. Maybe I'm generalizing a bit but most of them are like this. Now I have a crush on black girls only, but they seem to be not to much interested in white man I don't know why?2
Many men consider them as exotic women. Well this is just a preference. I consider Nordic women as exotic.
They also like the fact that Asian women are so small, almost look like childs. Japan is considered to be the paradise of every pedophile for that reason. I have a friend who's married with an Indonesian woman and he is obsessed with Asian women (actually he's obsessed with anything Asian) and always tells me to do the same thing although I told him I have no interest in Asian women at all. I like tall blond women with blue or green eyes dammit!1
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Maybe you shouldn't feel entitled to dating just because your white.6
Im Asian; i have no racial preference. But I have a friend who is black told me he has a preference for Asian girls, because they look so innocent and "angelic" like. He currently is with an Asian girl.
In old french, the chinese people were called "Les Celestres", meaning "the heavenly"2
I'm a White guy and I've never felt like I actually "prefer" Asian Women or find them more attractive than White chicks or whatever. There may be psychological reasons for some guys, eg maybe he's insecure that his penis is more satisfactory to a smaller Asian girl? But who really knows, maybe he's just got a fetish? If so I'm not someone who has the same fetish so I can't explain his mentality. It sucks you got dumped though, so I'm sending some positive vibes your way, keep your head up0
Sometimes guys have some really weird look preferences in girls. You might think that she is really ugly, but maybe he thinks that she is the most beautiful woman on earth. For example, a friend of mine has some really weird look preferences in my opinion. One day we were looking at girls that were passing by and he told me that he just saw the girl of his dreams, but I personally think that she was really ugly.
Anyways, look preferences are different for each person.1
Don't be jealous of Assian girls. i think there is no a definition of beauty so her small eyes, small boobs, flat nose e. t. c aren't important. if your crush leave you for that assian girl, it means this assian girl is more beautiful than you in his eyes but ou can be more beautiful than this assian girl in some men's eyes. just look for these men.1
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Sorry check the details of your question.
She can't speak English and you can't write English .
And 1 thing more, till now you have seen ugly Asian girl, think about the situation when you will see a true Asian beauty (like indian girls with some glorious faces). Till then rest in peace.1
White men don't like Asian girls, Asian girls like white men. This is because in the west, whites are the seat of power, and have the lion's share of positive media portrayal.
On a global scale, this preference is much less pronounced, but still exists to some extent, because of the dominance of American (white) culture.1
there is something known as attraction. its not about being white or Asian.
there are certain personality traits that you would like to see in your partner, maybe you lack those and that girl has them.1
Haha its so funny cuz i am Asian guys n we keep cussing to this white guys, "why are they taking ur women "? I think u should start dating some good looking Asian guys.0
Prospectively I want to put my money on its a change from what is usually seen my first gf was Mexican. I'd like to say it's starting onto foreign ground something different. But that's just my perspective0
Beautiful is what you like.1
Someone is jelly.
Asian women from India to Taiwan to Malaysia to Turkey are much better than your standard White Western Women and more and more White men are realizing this and are chasing after the better women.
Also Asian women and White Men look so good together.0
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What Girls Said 31
Oh girl STFU just cuz you can't get a date -_-
Really? You feel the need to put down a whole race just cuz you can't get someone? How fucking petty.
I have seen beautiful and ugly women (and men) of each race and skin color. Just cuz they don't share your features doesn't mean they're ugly. Just cuz you find them ugly doesn't mean they're ugly.
I think Asians are fucking gorgeous.
Why the fuck are women so fucking catty and willing to put each other down for men's attention? Small tits, big tits, petite women, curvy women, light skin, dark skin, tall women, short women, slim women, fat women etc. If a man doesn't wanna date you, why get mad at the woman he chose over you? That shit doesn't make sense. You can't help who you're attracted to. So stop and look elsewhere.
Why does it bother you if someone dates outside their race? I'm gonna go get me a white guy now just to piss you off more haha. jk jk. No but seriously let grown consenting adults date who they want, it's none of your business anyways.
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Not to mention in some Asian countries the whiter you are the closer to god they think you are. @Insaan He is totally right stop being so jealous hearted. A couple of guys dont find you attractive and your ex left you, that might not even be because you're not Asian. You ever thought about that? I swear I've seen this question before. Obviously you see yourself with more qualities than her why go for a guy who you think has such low standards? You probably notice it more because it's now relevant to you. Take this time to get over yourself.2
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i love how this thread starter has so much hate and sexist - racist views (sarcasm), it reminds me again why mankind (the thread starter) is far too immature.
here is a golden lesson that you should realize by now, your views do not and will not ever match the whole worlds views, everyone is different and everyone has different interests and preferences, just because you think she's ugly doesn't mean the whole world should think so too, to some guys you may be ugly, ever think about that?
also just so you know, if i could i would sue you for harassment, i found you're thread extremely offensive on every level and have reported you, farewell & good day. (Southeast Asian - Caucasian half-blood descent)
Quote: It Takes all kinds to make up the World, and you are one minuscule & insignificant part of it.3
This bitch trollin. First of all how can a crush leave you when you were never together? Second, I don't think he "left" you because you're white & she's Asian. I think he left you because of your backwards attitude. You need to get a new personality. Just look at how you have responded to other people here. Third, don't hate on thin women. Next, she's probably not as ugly as you might think she is. You're just blinded because you're jealous that he's going after her and not you.4
Simply put, appearance is not the determining factor in a person's worth, nor is race. You have only focused on the trivial characteristics of this girl. He probably chose her for her personality, which is far more important than appearance. Also, even if you believe she is unappealing because she doesn't fit the mold of conventional beauty, he obviously doesn't believe that; beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their own views of what they think beauty is, no view is superior to another, nor should one's ideal be imposed on another person.
Do not think he chose her just because she is Asian; race does not define a person. Also, the racial stereotypes are ridiculous; not all Asians are the same, just like not all Caucasians, or people of any ethnicity for that matter, are the same. I do not see any reason why the facts that you are white, that he is white, that she is Asian should matter at all.
Lastly, you mentioned that the guy is just your crush, not anything beyond that; therefore, he did not "leave" you. It seems that you have channeled your frustration and despair over him into unhealthy criticism and hatred for the girl he chose. It's a typical reaction, but it's an irrational one. Just try to accept reality as it is.0
Maybe he likes someone short with small boobs, small eyes, and flat nose lol. It is just his preference, I'm sure there are guys who prefer your features to Asian's.6
The amount of ignorance and stereotypes in this thread makes me physically sick
That being said I have no idea why he left. I do agree that the average Asian woman doesn't really fit the beauty ideal we have in the west at the moment. A lot of men have idealized picture of Asian women in their mind. Look wise as well as behavior wise which has little to do with reality. If that's the case, they won't last long.
Either way, you have accept the relationship ending2
Well fort off they're cute. Who cares if they have small eyes or flat noses, that doesn't make them less cute.
Also there is a highly positive connotation with Asian women. They're viewed as smart, educated, shy, submissive, feminine, dainty, cute, and tons of other great ideas.
Also if she ant speak English properly who cares, a lot of the people I know don't speak proper English . If it's not her first language that's okay. Don't hate on her, hate on the guy who left you1
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What about your own personality? Have u reflect upon yourself? Maybe they are more compatible.5
"she can't sleep English properly" neither can you and you sounds racist!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWFQ1uiD8LA2
I'm Asian and guys likes me because I'm small and cute.
You seem ti have a shit attitude, which is probably why he left✌1
It's the hot and spicy flood. Theyre prefer over pasta with chhhheeese. :) ;)2
*speak. No need to hate on something just because you don't understand it. Calling her ugly is objective, to you she may seem so. To him she is probably the moat magnificent and enchanting thing on this planet. Imperfections are the usually the moat beautiful.0
I think a majority of men just have an Asian fetish. I'm pretty sure I read something like that somewhere.1
It's his preference, not yours.
Don't be a hater.1
appearance is not everything...0
Oh not another question like this!!! :( Asian girls are beautiful though :)0
cause of their furry kitties if you know what I mean ;) ;) ;)0
They love Asian women because they are submissive.
Asian women also love to date white men because they feel its a step up from Asian guys.
They love western men.0
Honestly, I have no idea what they see in them looks wise0
they have bodies like men
need I say more
plus they worship white men1
Maybe she wasn't a cunt? Sometimes it actually depends on personality :)3
Honestly, I agree with you and I don't get it either. I'm not gonna sit here and call them ugly, I believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way. And to be honest I think I am more annoyed of the fact that these Asian girls are SOOO desperate for white men rather than the fact that the white men go for them. Any guy would go for any girl that throws themselves at them specially if they're pushovers lol
And Asian women are known to be pushovers and I'm not taking this shit out of my ass, I have read articles and forums online of Asian women ADMITTING this themselves. They admit to the fact that a lot of Asian women seek white men and would rather be with white men than people of their own race. It's really embarrassing I think, for example I'm Middle-Eastern and although that's considered white I don't see myself as white I just think I'm middle-eastern, and I'm not desperately seeking a white guy I would much rather be with someone of my own race than anyone else, I mean I have nothing against men of other races, I would be open to it but I would prefer Middle-Eastern guys. My main priority in life isn't finding a white man like Asian girls lol Asian women CONSTANTLY and DESPERATELY seek white men and honestly they succeed very easily; I have heard and read that they are good women to be in a relationship with, they're not difficult, they're not picky, THEY ARE submissive (which sucks for them, honestly lol), and I just think that it's pathetic. Like how embarrassing it is that they worships white men like that?
THIS IS FOR THE Asian GIRL: Have some dignity! Stop throwing yourself at white guys, just don't throw yourself at guys period. LOL But seriously stop desperately seeking white guys and worshiping them, they're not that special haha2
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