I friendzoned him and now he didn't text me back? What do I do? I like him but he was moving too fast?

[Anonymous]

Ugh, I'm SOO dumb. I can't deal!

[LostWolf]

Well he's probably feeling a little depressed and hurt over being friendzoned. If you like him but felt he was moving too fast, then take some time (a month or two) to get to know him. Try and be friendly, hang out with him or invite him to hang out with you. Be a good friend and maybe flirt with him at the right moments. Then when you think you're ready tell him how you feel about him. In future, never friendzone a guy just because he's moving too fast. Tell them straight-up instead that they're moving too fast and that you are interested in him, but need/want more time. If they don't like that then it might be a warning sign of control issues or neediness/desperation. If they're ok with it be sure to give them some extra-special attention as your friend so they don't forget that you just want to take it slow, and that a relationship is on the horizon.

[allstarsdude]

Just how did you "friendzone" him?
Honestly, I don't see what this friendzone fuss is about. If you made it clear to him that you just want to be friends, he's right to withdraw contact, as he felt that you two were after two different things.

[KillerTaco]

"I like him but he was moving too fast" What I don't understand here is why you didn't say that from to begin with...

[Curmudgeon]

Well, since you friendzoned him he is not as interested in pursuing you. Simple as that. You are trying to have your proverbial cake and eat it too...

[Ninja0022]

Tell him exactly that. The truth is always the best. If he really likes you he will understand and take your feelings into consideration.

[Anonymous]

I would text him again! If he's anything like me, then he still thinks about you and he's just giving you some space for now

[Anonymous]

Look, being friendzoned sucks, but he should understand why you did it.