My boyfriend of one year is working on our first anniversary together. When I heard this was happening I got super upset. I didn't lash out at all, I just said that is disappointing. Gosh, I feel terrible cuz work comes first, but I'm still upset with it! He says he wants a make up date, but im busy the days he's available this week. I scheduled and planned for that day to be just the two of us and now it's not gonna happen it looks like. I never thought I'd be a person to become all diva like, but just the expectation of celebrating the start of our relationship on that day and not being able to even see him then is hurtful.
My boyfriend is working on out anniversary, do I have a right to be upset?
What Guys Said 4
You can't always control you working hours. You'll just have to accept it and plan for another day1
Just celebrate it later, if you're both busy for a while after the actual date of your anniversary, it's not a big deal if the celebration is a few weeks after, just make sure the next date you guys have is special.0
what f***ing place that employs him would not let him go out on an anniversary? thats bull crap dont be mad at him be mad at his employer1
What Girls Said 3
He has no control over his working hours. Work is work. You being upset over something he has no power over is very unreasonable.
I understand it's your anniversary and all but it's really no big deal to just celebrate it on another day.1
Well he might get fired and obviously he cares about you so I wouldn't get so worked up. Schedule for another time. I don't think celebrating your anniversary is a huge deal.0
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