My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month, but have been "flirting" for 6 months. We are sexually active, we spend a lot of time together, we have so much fun together.
He is 17 I'm 16. I weigh A LOT more then him. He's 6'3 I am 5'6. His weight does not bother me. But I fear that my weight bothers him. He has never said anything about it, but I'm just worried that maybe he's good at hiding the fact it bothers him. I don't know how to go about asking him if my weight bothers him.
I don't want him to think I'm incredibly insecure, but I do want to know how he feels about it. I hope I learn to get over this insecurity. i dont really tell him my insecurities about my body but when i mention my thighs he tells me he loves my "thick thighs".
He tells me I'm beautiful everyday, but I just can't get over the weight difference. Does it bother guys if their girlfriend is significantly heavier? How do I go about asking if the fact I'm much heavier bothers him, without sounding insecure? How do I stop being insecure about this?
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Well... if you are unhappy with yourself FOR YOU, then do something about it. If you are unhappy with yourself, because of what he is thinking, that is maybe not the best attitude to have.
Yes of course we want to do things for our SO and want them to like and be proud of us. That might mean we try to change some things to be better or whatever. However those are usually small things. In this case you are built a certain way. Either you are comfortable with it or you are not. If you are not then do something about it. If you are, then be happy he accepts you as you are.
Hope that makes sense.5
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