Girls has persistence ever worked on you? Guys has persistence ever paid off?

Not like pushy levels. No asking you out every time you run into eachother but persistence in the sense that every now and then if the times right they'll ask you out. Do girls see this as desperate?

  • Sometimes
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  • Not often
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  • Never. It seems desperate
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Most Helpful Girl

  • i think it shows her that u give a shit about her. there's nothing wrong with actually trying to make something happen.
    any guy or girl who is approaching someone needs to quit being so delicate about it. if u want them, work for it. if u dont, quit beating round the bush because ur gonna waste ur own time.
    just my opinion.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • this hardly ever works the only time this works is when:

    you are the last option and it hasn't worked out with all her other prospects she might give you a shot, never EVER be someones option if she doesn't like you bail out don't waste your time on a girl that doesn't invest herself on you thats rule one on not getting burned

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    • Not true, man; I know several cases where a guy got rejected a number of times before she finally agreed to go out - in two cases they're married now. Women don't always know WHAT they want.

    • it MIGHT happen but i probably won't

What Girls Said 6

  • If a guy asked me out and I didn't want to go out with him then likely my feelings won't change. Asking me again and again will just annoy me eventually. There's likely a good reason why I declined a date the first time around and if I really couldn't make it for some reason then I'd make it right with the guy by suggesting another day & time.

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  • This question brings back memories! I think it sometimes can. I had this guy friend for a while who would ask me put every few weeks and I always said no. He finally just started telling random people in our crowd, and some of my friends that we were dating. For the next few weeks people kept congratulating me on our relationship. It was so funny that we ended up going out for like 4 1/2 years. I never actually told him "yes". 😊

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  • It doesn't happen no always will mean no.

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  • Some girls like to play hard to get and make sure if the guy is committed and really likes them. So they will make the guy chase for a while. And sometimes, some girls don't know their feelings yet so they might reject a guy at first, but then accept later.

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  • Really good way to get a restraining order filed against you.

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    • It makes a difference if it is someone you are around a lot (work, school, mutual friends) or some stranger who suddenly camps on your doorstep. I know a number of people who eventually got together after the girl shot him down repeatedly.

  • There's a fine line between persistence and desperation. If she into you or you click then it might. But pushing something that she's made clear she's not interested in. That is desperation and never works.

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What Guys Said 6

  • I will ask the most three times, until she brings it up then i will move on.
    Basically, when the first time u ask her out, she rejects you, she may have a boyfriend, or she started with low romantic interest with you. U CAN'T FIX IT BY BEING PERSISTENT, NATURE HAS TAKEN CARE IT.

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    • Any advice for a girl who you know for certain use to like you but got tired of waiting around for you?

    • I never want a girl to wait for me. If she calls or texts me, it may indicate she likes me, as a man its my job to take things forward, ie ask her out.

  • It depends on why they turned you down. If they like you but there's something that makes them unsure they may change their mind.

    My ex didn't want to date me at first because she was 21 and I was her 17 year old coworker.

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  • Time will tell.

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  • It truly depends on the woman... Also, be careful what you are wishing for...

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  • I am never persistent with a woman period. I ask her out and she says no that's it and I know she isn't interested and leave her be.

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  • Absolutely not.

    If she says no the first time, odds are she's not interested.

    If she's playing games, then the correct reaction is to pull back. If you jump through hoops for her, that's playing the game wrong. I think playing games is stupid, but if you want to play games, then you don't act like a mouse performing for cheese to win, you make her the mouse.

    If she was on the edge and you win her over, that's like the worst scenario (and rare). I do know one couple like that, they've been together for many many years and it's still so obvious he's more into her than vice versa.

    Focus less on getting 'the girl', and more on finding a girl who is as passionate for you as you are for her.

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