Just wondering.. Cuz I'm 20 and I've never driven a car before.. It just happens that it takes 20 minutes by train to he city where I work and public transport is much more efficient and easier. If there's a traffic jam sometimes it takes 2 hours. I just never got round to learning how to drive. Is this a turn off?
Being willing to learn is a must. That being said if you live in a city where public transit is good enough to not need a car, and where using public transit is easier and more efficient, I can see not owning a car and it wouldn't be a deal breaker. But you should at least know how.
I married a woman who had never learned to drive. She did soon after marrying me as we ended up living where she needed to be able to drive. But not driving was not a problem as far as dating (or marrying).
I guess it wouldn't really bother me. Just don't be late for everything, or totally unavailable all the time, and use "I don't drive" as an excuse. There's nothing wrong with not driving. There's a lot wrong with being habitually late and/or unavailable.
It's better!.. If I have a car she does not knows to drive.. I shouldn't worry about my car getting wreaked.. Although I would make our dates where I teach her to drive.. She will learn and we will have some funny moments too..