Basically we were sat at a table and my sister lent over and her boobs were fully out and my boyfriend noticed them and looked. I saw too so didn't mind the first time but then I saw him look again in the corner of his eye and that is what has upset me. She has much bigger boobs than me and it has made me feel worthless as she is my sister also. I can't help but think why did he look twice? Did he like the look of them and so look again? :( I asked him and he told me he did notice them as they were obvious but he wasn't checking her out. But I still feel hurt :(
Most Helpful Guy
It really is a natural reaction for a guy, sometimes honestly we can't control it, it's like driving by a car crash and not looking. For your feelings, realize that it's just that, looking, it means NOTHING at all other than that. If you seen a hot guy (totally your type in every way) walking down the street without a shirt, might you take a quick look or two just admiring. But it means nothing, same here. That may not be the best example but what I'm saying is you're taking it too personally. Now if he starts staring at her randomly now without any reason (ie she hasn't had her boobs in his face lol) then maybe you have something to be upset about, but this case specifically, don't think about it. Move on. It was just in that moment and it's over. Again, it honestly very hard for us guys to control sometimes, we do it and don't even realize it sometimes seriously. I've caught myself looking at strangers before and I've thought to myself wtf? Why am I looking? Uncontrollable. Just a natural reaction.3
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Most Helpful Girl
I believe that you do not have much to worry about. Up to now, for you never said, he has never given you any Proof in his own sweet Pudding that He Looks and lurks Other girls, much less Boobs to Boot.
I am sure that with 'My sister lent over and her boobs were fully out,' He probably was Both Shocked and Surprised to his Wondering, Not Wandering, Eyes, that She had the Nerve to wear Something So... Revealing.
I am sure he did 'Look twice,' and with them Coming out of their Package, How can Anyone Not help but take a Second Glance by Chance?
He was quite off guard, and with you Approaching him on this Sister Sore Subject, he tried to "Lie' his way out of it because he couldn't Explain it. His Tongue was in a Twist.
He loves you. Up to this point in time, has there ever been a 'Time" where Sis has Ever been on his Mind?
Good luck. xx1
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