i took a girl out on friday. we had a great time drinks, dancing and then my house. it was our first date but we ended up getting intimate. I never texted her and I woke up Monday and she deleting me off bbm. I was going to text her Monday because I was busy all weekend. I don't get why she deleted me when I know she had a great time ? explain please
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You didn't text her for 3 days following having sex on a first date. Women are very vulnerable about giving themselves up like that. Especially when it's the first date as they know that society frowns upon it. The hope is that you're feeling the connection as much as she was, and that she will not be judged or used. When you don't call her for an entire weekend following that, she's going to take it as you used her for sex, and she's going to feel ashamed and hurt. Was not a smart move at all.
My question is though, most guys are aware of these dating rules. Especially guys in your age range. If they're into a girl, and they slept with her, they don't want to hurt her or make her regret that decision. Are you really that into her if you couldn't find time in 2 days just to say you enjoyed the date and make her feel less like a one night stand? Or are you only intrigued now because she deleted you?1