I mean like touching their, arm, hand, thigh, hair, or whatever while talking on the first date.
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It will depend on how the date is going and who the girl is. Best thing you can do is go with your gut, because there's no specific rule to follow.
However, you probably generally don't want to get too sexual on a first date, so avoid "hot spots" like thighs. Hair is romantic, arm etc. is appropriate and flirty. Hands, it depends. Holding hands on a first date might be a bit much specifically because the whole thing is so new, and that's usually a couples thing. But like I said, go with your gut. If it seems right, go for it. She'll either accept it and return the connection, or reject it. If she rejects it, don't get discouraged. It doesn't necessarily mean she's rejecting you; she just might not be ready. In which case, respect her boundaries, and when she's ready and the time is right, you'll know.1
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