not even a kiss on the cheek, just a hug after each date. He asked me out for a 3rd time so he must like me? It's nice that he obviously doesn't want to use me for sex, he likes spending time with me. But is it odd that he hasn't really made a move yet? I'm not complaining I think it's nice. Just unsure if he likes me in that way.
We haven't kissed or held hands yet after 2 dates?
What Guys Said 6
Not every guy is a horn dog, believe it or not. There are a lot of guys that want to get to know a girl before, they try to get physical with her.1
He seems to have the respect for you. I wouldn't be worried about his feelings towards you, though. It's possible that he's also a little too shy, considering you've only been on two dates. I wouldn't give a girl a kiss until probably the third or fourth date. Then again, it it also depends on how she were to act with me. I wouldn't risk ruining something fun if I wasn't positive the girl was okay with it.1
He probably likes you and is simply too inexperienced/shy to make the first move. Or, he is trying to respect your boundaries. He could also be testing the waters to see if he has been friend-zoned.
My guess is it's the first one. Curious though, where have you two gone to for the first two dates?1
I doubt he would go on dates if he didn't, must find you attractive he's either shy/new to it/may not think you are ready or just wants to be 'nice' I guess..0
What Girls Said 3
If you like him keep going out, maybe even move in for a kiss when you get together, if he is a good guy and treats you with respect that is what matters, I am sure he will come around. Good luck!
This sounds to me like something that happened to me after I went out with a guy many times. In my case the guy liked hanging out with me but only saw me as a friend he was not attracted to me. At first I just though the guy was shy which could be true in your case but ide also advice you to be careful. I would give him another date or two if he does not kiss you in 2 more dates then I would move on because he may also see you as a friend.0
my boyfriend moved really slowly when we started dating...we are in college and he was sleeping in my room for almost a month before he kissed me...crazy I know but that's just how it went but it wasn't a big deal at all everyone moves at their own pace0
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