So you've been a fantastic, intelligent date with loads of things to say. You've established that you've got a glittering personality and you're vibing just great with your partner, what happens if you're not your usual awesome self on one date? This is what has happened with me..on the last date, I completely clamped up and didn't have much to say, basically I was no fun at all. So in order to puncture the awkwardness in the air, I started making pointless small talk and actually said some pretty stupid stuff that's totally uncharacteristic of me.
We've been on at least 5 dates before and I know he digs me cause he keeps wanting to see me, now I'm afraid I've ruined my chances after the last date when I was just no fun at all?
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The kind of "not being my awesome self" you are referring too is OK, I can handle that. We have much lower standards as guys in this regard. Unlike women, we don't exactly expect our partners to be our form of entertainment. We don't expect you to be the most entertaining person on the planet all the time, otherwise we'll get bored. It usually about the intangibles that draw us to a girl. Is she genuine, have good morals, smart, loyal, mature, down to earth, etc. Not whether or not she funny or something.
Now the one thing that can send a guy running to the hills is if you show to a date and act like you got into a fight with your best friend and your dog just died all in the same day. In other words, being emotional, a bitch, or being dramatic is really bad. Guys don't like girls who are full of drama and always being way to emotional. If we take you on a date and you have an attitude the entire time its a huge turn off. I know girls that when they have a bad day, they become a total bitch and a emotional mess, to the point of me not even wanting to be around them. Don't be like that.1