I hate bras. They are so uncomfortable. I'm a 36d, which is normal, I think. In your opinion do you find it trashy? Or do you think it shows confidence because I am being true to my feelings by not wearing one?
Hey, it's certainly not trashy providing you're dressed reasonably and decently - it's perfectly possible to look trashy while wearing a bra, just the fact that you aren't wearing one in no way means that you must look trashy. It's a sad fact of life that some narrow minded and up tight folk will always judge women who don't wear a bra - why I've no idea, it's a stupid and ignorant basis for judging a person - who cares what they think?
No sensible open minded person would judge or consider your choice any sort of a big deal - it's just an item of clothing, it's entirely a woman's choice to wear one or not. If you prefer not to, then don't wear one - it's absolutely fine. Your size is not an issue, you'll be fine, you'll certainly do no harm and your certainly won't increase the risk of sagging if that worries you - in fact you'll minimise that risk by working and so strengthening the ligaments which naturally support the breasts. And while you should just do it because you want to do it, (and assuming what you wear means it's possible to tell you're not wearing one), choosing not to wear a bra is a very cute, confident and attractive look and to me says that you know your own mind and care not for the views of the tiny minded and idiotic. Which is a pretty positive message all round in my view! :)
It depends on where you're going and what you have on. Realistically, if you don't wear a bra, your boobs are likely to look saggy, more bouncy, and if your nipples are hard it's going to show. If you're going somewhere where there are children or going to church where modesty is encouraged, then yes, that is very trashy. There are other ways to show confidence besides slinging your 36d's around. Especially if you're going to get an attitude with people for looking, staring, or guys for catcalling/ making comments about them.
it´s not trashy and it doesn´t show confidence. when i see a girl not wearing a bra in public, i believe she is a person that thinks outside of the box. doesn´t obay to unrelected conventions and has a head of her own.
One problem is that you need to watch out for your tits. not that i care, but when women get horny or excited their tits get hard, and you can clearly see that through ones shirt. its hot, but it might look unprofessional
Honestly yes I find it trashy. Your nipples will show through and it will be even worse if it's cold and you get hard or if you wear a see though T-shirt that won't be good.
Also take it from me you're a D and I'm a DD I'm not that big of a fan of bras either but you have large boobs the bra is your friend when you don't where them your breast will adjust to that and will begin to sag more and more and you'll be young with the breast of and old lady.
Yeah why not. People know you have boobs already, they know you got nips, it's literally nothing anybody hasn't seen before. So who cares? As long as you're okay with it, it's fine. People act like they've never seen boobs before, and don't know why they're there or what they're for.
Depends what else you're wearing and if you're drawing attention to the fact that you're not wearing one. Women with small boobs can get away with wearing no bra under a tank top and most people won't even notice. But when you're bigger, it's a lot more obvious.
I'm larger chested and I'll go to the store without a bra on if I'm wearing a hoodie or something because I don't feel like throwing one on.. but I'd never go out and about normally without one.
honestly i wore no bra at my fall homecoming my junior year of high school because i had no bra that i could wear with the dress i was wearing and in my senior portrait (which is my profile picture) i was forced to tape my boobs because i had no bra that i could wear with an off the shoulder top i sounded like a bag of sun chips every time i moved and i do have D cups so do whatever you want.
It depends on what you are wearing. There are many tops and dresses I have that I go braless and look classy. Its only trashy if you are wearing something that makes it obvious, ( those backless tank tops that show all side boob, tight fit tops, etc.) Its like why bother wearing a top, just join a nudist colony bc your not leaving much to the imagination anyways. It looks like you are trying to get attention in the wrong way, I think its distasteful. Otherwise braless if fine, done in a tasteful, modest and flattering manner.
They're should be a do whatever you want option. If it's for a trip to the grocery store you could get away with it. But if it's something like church, parties, social gatherings, do so at your own risk.