I used to feel the same way! I always saw guys drooling over the tall, thin, tan blond. I actually did go through with it and dye my hair lighter...yeah, not doing that again, haha.
As I've aged, I've actually noticed that the majority of guys I've talked to say they prefer brunettes and girls with very dark hair instead (I've only met two men in my entire life that have flat out told me they only like blondes). We as brunettes have the appearance of being smarter, nicer, classier and more mysterious (...cause we are, haha).
So even though right now it seems like guys only go for the blondes, trust me girl, they don't all feel that way.
Plus, I can already see that you're gorgeous, so you for sure don't need to worry, dear!
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I think it has a lot to do with the perfect image of barbie and a lot of p*rn stars. Its in some guy's head that that's the perfect woman but in reality there's a ton of different types of women who are just as beautiful and a lot even more attractive than the tan blondes they go for. Unless you really want to dye your hair blond for YOURELF then I suggest you don't. You shouldn't have to change just to meet a guy. He should like you for you, including your hair color.
Guys like PRETTY tan blondes. I was a tan blond last summer, but no guys took any interest in me because I wasn't the typical hot blond.
You are a gorgeous brunette, and a lot of guys trip over themselves for girls like you. Don't dye your hair, you look amazing.
I know this is off topic a bit, but just be careful when dying your hair blond, when my sister did it some of her hair broke off 0.o never happen to me though, but just be careful!
You have very nice hair color. You look a lot like the type of girl my teenage son looks for. He likes dark haired girls. Your eye color and eye brow color would give away a fake blond job. If a guy has rejected you just based on hair color, he is pretty shallow. Move on to a new guy.
Because they have sh*t for brains and lousy souls.
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The tan and blond hair isn't what makes them hot. Usually the women that have a tan and blond hair have a hot body. The tan and the blond hair just enhances their beauty but not every guy finds them to be attractive.
I personally like that look but I prefer their normal skin tone with blond hair.Tan is alright, and blond is nice, but sometimes the combination just makes a girl look plastic, especially if they really overdo both. Tanning booths should not be frequented three times daily! Lol. I love it when a woman's natural beauty simply shines out, and it can very easily be subtle, not flamboyant.
I don't like natural blondes tanned, generally. Fake blond and fake tan gets me going though, hahaha. Not as much as fake black and fake tan though. Never liked natural tan.
I think you'd suit dyed blond, though =]Personally I like brunettes much better than blonds (tan or not) but each guy has his own preferences.
i don't prefer it. your beautiful and don't need it. I would date you without a doubt. only those shallow type of guys want to change women to their desired image.
2 out of 3 men would prefer a brunette over a blond actually. they like tans because it makes women look more toned, but they dislike fake tans and girls looking like Doritos.
I would say don't your skin color does not match and it would look bad, anyway your hair color is beautiful in your profile pic, if a bit unruly.
I don't like girls who actively tan or girls who bleach their hair blond. I find both to make a girl physically unattractive.
the same reason why some guys like untan brunettes. theyre just hot. stop generalizing. I myself prefer pale redheads. but I'm with a tanned jet black girl, you can't help who you fall for but you can help what you do with it
natural hair colour is way hotter. don't do it your hairs really nice. Deep black and really dark brown are my favouirte colours
Don't do it. You're really attractive as it is. I'm not sure you'd suit blond as much as brunette.
It's just some guys preference but definitely not all.
not excactly true. To me it doesn't really matter to much.
I mean, it's attractive, but most of the time, those girls are fake.
ugh. stereotypes. maybe it's the whole barbie, ken thing
we like the tan hair color don't matter except pink
Dark to light sucks. Don't do it.
I love blondes, but dislike fake tanned skin!
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