What do guys find attractive and hot?

I know that every guy is different.. but overall what finds them attracted to a girl? I've just gotten over my ex, so I need tips on what guys are overly attracted to :) I know it sounds silly but.. its always been at the back of my mind..

Thankyou x


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  • A girl with good skin, pretty eyes, long legs, and not too fat nor too skinny just heallthy looking

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  • First things first, the physical. A girl with a shapely body and a beautiful face is an automatic turn-on. Bonus points if she knows how to show off her body in a tasteful manner. What constitutes tasteful, however, can vary from guy to guy.

    The right attitude is hot. One that shows a girl is comfortable with herself and her sexuality, without being brazen. E.g. - guys don't want prudes, but they don't want sluts either.

    Attitude also covers her not being, essentially, a bitch. No guy wants to date a bitchy girl for long, although what exactly constitutes bitchiness can vary somewhat from guy to guy (for instance, a sarcastic sense of humor - some guys like it, some don't). Generally though, it's agreed that stuck up, backstabbing, or just downright mean girls are bitchy. And just so you know, even the hottest girls can become fairly unattractive to guys if they're bitchy.

    Pheromones - these do play a role. I've met girls who, while otherwise nothing special, somehow managed to be extremely sexy and attractive to guys. This is more of a you have it or you don't kind of thing though.

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  • no makeup

    self confidense but not bragging about yourself

    very caring...

    honestly.. everyone judges off of looks.. but in the end.. all I truly care about is the girl... if she cares and is what I like.. that's all that matters...

    but yea..

    no makeup is a big one for me...

    just a pair of jeans and a tshirt.. not overdoing it...

    keep it simple :) show off your beauty without covering your real self :)

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  • Guys typically like girls who are pretty and in good shape. Dressing well and projecting good self-confidence will help a lot too. Have inviting body language (smile, look at guys often, etc). Don't forget that personality is number one!

    ~Distant

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  • Just be in the best physical shape you can be in, grow your hair out if it's short, get the best grades you can (intelligence is attractive with all else being equal - that is to say hot smart chicks are more attractive than hot dumb chicks)...and operate with integrity*.

    *With all the political scandals going on (Schwarzenegger, Anthony Weiner, etc.), I've realized how important integrity is for people in general. What you don't want to happen is to work on yourself, and make yourself this drop-dead gorgeous bombshell that every guy fantasizes about, and then screw it up in the end by getting in trouble for something scandalous like cheating and getting expelled or something. Nothing drops attractive points like a lack of integrity.

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  • Im atracted to beautiful classy indepent well dressed girls that have street and book smarts I like freaks not hoes lol not to dress thrashy I hate when they over due it with make up nasty...also caring personalty later on in the futre they be ahead in an office and not in a mcdonald ..and in looks in other words don't matter as long as they in shape thier face is well taken care off no pircings not too fat or too skinny is good...i think pircings are like putting stickers on a honda lol cnt make it better you noe but yea hope it helps

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  • The so could x factor: girls can be physical attractive, but I wouldn't date the ones that haven't got the x factor.

    What automatically says that the less physical attractive girls can be attractive.

    What is the x factor?

    pretty hard to define: funnyness, originality, style, way of laughing, interests, energy and all of this not faked, but straight from the hard. That is the defenition of attractiveness imo.

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  • the first most thing that attract guys towards girls is the shape

    a good figure makes its role many times

    i would go for 36-24-36 girls

    i mean the things that need the attention are boobs. lips, hips, eyes

    last but not the least is their bums

    the way she walks makes her ass swing

    i love it and like to grab the ass and bite it hardly

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  • A girl that wants her guy around and to provide for her and help her not a girl that tries to be independent. A guy likes to feel like he can do what ever he can for his girl.

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  • uh... doesn't use too much make-up, loyal, at least a bit cute, cannot have huge breasts. I don't really care if she has big breasts or a flat chest... what else?... *looks at some of the posts*

    ah, appearance? I hope the girl isn't too chubby or too thin. other than that, I think that's it...

    OH! I forgot. if she has red-hair and meets the above criteria, that's an automatic win!

    Red hair For Eva!

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  • What I find attractive going from most important to less important:

    1. Clean Skin - She needs to have good, clean skin

    2. Fitness - She should work out regularly and maintain a healthy diet so that she looks good and feels good

    3. Legs and ass - this comes along with #2; if a girl works out, I'm sure she fulfills this criteria

    4. Originality - If there is something about her personality that sets her apart from other girls, it usually makes her more attractive

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  • Hot or not, beer goggles makes everything look better. What are guys attracted to? Tits and ass for first starters. Second starters, any girl who is willing to share them. It's not rocket science.

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  • The most attractive girl to me, is one who is intelligent, independent and confident. Looks are less important.

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  • body and clothes. if the clothes show off your assets it makes girls look better than if they hid them.

    keep your body looking its best, from hair, to skin, to clothes and excersice

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  • BOOBS!

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  • it sounds corny but I swear its true for me at lest, attitude is a crucial thing, being stuck up and arrogant is equally a turn off for guys as it is for women. but for body I would say smile. hope I helped.

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  • stud

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  • no make-up

    clean smooth feet

    simple hair style

    self confidant

    good luck :)

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    • feet?!.. my feet are fine.

  • I notice the Ass and the legs first because I like when girls walk and how the legs move the ass

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  • Let's start with the basics. How's your body?

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    • not bad? not fat, but not skinny, kinda curvy, boobs aren't that big, always get complememnts for my bum?.. :S

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    • how do you stop being annoying?! haha.. :L

    • Haha! Okay, start by figuring out what you're doing that's annoying people and do less of it. In the meantime, just speak less. You may benefit from loud parties or clubs where it's tougher to talk, but easier to showcase your bum or put it to use in grinding on your dance partner.

What Girls Said 4

  • From my personal experience, I've noticed that guys like girls who are self-confident, and who have a great sense of humor. And I would assume that guys also like girls who are down to earth, and who aren't high maintenance.

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    • "I've noticed that guys like girls who...have a great sense of humor."

      idk...I've seen female stand-up comics, and have generally been unattracted to them.

  • I think everyone is different so just be yourself and look around.. maybe do your make-up and hair in a similar fashion to a celebrity you find beautiful?

    Guys are like us in the end.. you might find someone attractive whilst your friend find him revolting haha

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  • Not bitchy, high matience sluts. Guys like laid back girls or fiesty girls with some wit. Only crappy guys want dumb girls. That sums it up.

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  • large boobs or large hips or even just a curvy figure. sexy heels and really attractive dresses.

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