what do men that are not the fathers, think about women's bodies who have had babies? I used to have a tight, little body with a great ass and nice perfect boobs! now I have stretch marks, my boobs are deflated and my skin isn't as tight. I absolutely hate it. I'm getting surgery as soon as I can save up the money. I'm not with the babies dad so it scares me when a guy sees me naked Because he doesn't know how good I looked before! what do men really think?do ruined bodies turn a guy off?
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To the anonymous male answerer who said, "It shows that you were irresponsible when you were having sex. That or you don't love very easily."
You are just plain stupid.
There is no causal connection between her having a child and being irresponsible. You don't have any idea how long she was involved with the father of her child and birth control isn't 100% effective. The pill fails, as do condoms, and every other form of birth control. Many, many people in the world today are the product of an "oops" between two people who may/may not have been married. You also have no idea if this child was planned or not. Perhaps they planned to have a child, but then the guy freaked and bailed. My point is YOU just don't know, therefore it's irresponsible of you to make such judgments about her life.
Second, how in God's name did you reach the clearly illogical conclusion that because she has a child she doesn't "love very easily?" Dumb, dumb, dumb. Seriously, do you even think before you start speaking (or typing)?
I'm glad you showed everyone just how ignorant you are so they can disregard everything you said.4