Do guys like girls who dress kind of boyish or do they prefer girlier or trendy looking girls?
i don't think I dress too boyish. I wear girl clothes but I make it look my own style. I wear lots of layers because they make me feel safe. ha ha :D and I never show my boobs or anything. I don't want people to get the wrong idea about me. I wear flannels, Jeans, lots of stripes, cardigans boat neck shirts, pants, etc. but I usually wear converse or vans. If I ever wear flats, its because I'm wearing something too boyish and I don't want people to think I'm a lesbian or something. And I wear necklaces and earrings and bracelets to remind people that I'm still a girl. I feel like I dress like my 2 year old niece sometimes. And odd thing is, she always likes my clothes. She thinks theyre hers . ha ha :D
Oh and the girliest I usually dress is like Taylor swift. I just realized we dress similar. :( like when she wears pants because I don't wear skirts or dresses.
I have a platinum pixie but I always wear a tiny bit of makeup like mascara, and blush. I try to keep a balance between tomboy and girly. I don't want people to think I'm a lesbian so I have to wear something that looks kind of girly. Since I'm not too girlie and don't care about fashion and all that, I don't follow trends. I just wear what I like, but I am careful about looking trashy.
So idk. Do guys like tomboys or girlier women, or do they not care?
ok. so for those who wanted pictures, I won't post one of myself but I'll post pictures that are similar to what I wear on a daily basis.
i don't think I dress too boyish, nor too girlie either.
You could try a pic but no, it seems like it screams 'I'm asexual'.
You don't need to dress girlie. Boyish clothes that are body conscious are still hot. But as you noted, you like lots of layers because its 'safe'. You don't want people to see your body in a sexual way. Your desire is likely being granted. And that makes you invisible to guys.
Dress how you feel comfortable. Everyone has different tastes and you'll never be able to please them all. So please yourself and guys will be attracted to the real you instead of a fake you.
Personally I think flannel shirts are hot. They are hot in the soft fuzzy cuddle by the fireplace on a cold winter night sort of way - if that makes sense. But hey, I'm old school and I have no idea what people like now. But I do know that everyone has different tastes and if you go too far out of your comfort zone it will just appear fake.
It's OK to dress "down" in this case but if you're looking like a nun, then no. Women don't understand how to dress to accentuate. Pick out the best feature of your body, and let it free...(obviously not nude, but you get the point), then cover up the rest. That way, you give a little hint, but keeps him guessing...that's what men want when it comes to women and their style
you can wear compltely non revealing clothing and attract more intelligent guys who can see that you're not one of those girls looking for lots of guy approval.. and that's great, you'll probably naturally attract a guy that you like much more than the norm
Giirrll to hell with the world...u dress in whichever way you feel comfortable,and ull atract the attention you deserve I'm sure...a guy should look at you for who you are and how you speak,not for how h*rny he feels when looking at u,that is not the attention you would want...just be yourself,and don't care what they like/dislike..
One of my old guy friends (who is also an ex) got engaged to a girl who was extremely tomboyish. He dated her right after me. >_< I'm really girly. But now I know the reason why things didn't work out is because tomboys are what floats his boat.