So... let's say a girl is wearing a tank top, and then she turns around to where her upper back and shoulders are seen. Then let's add that the back is covered with light brown/tan colored marks over pale skin, that are left behind from unfortunate back acne. Is it disgusting? I have it, and am self-conscious (though I can usually talk myself into "not caring" anyway)... it isn't cystic or full of white heads, its just the leftover, noticeable marks (but not deep, "pitted" scars).
This question is to both guys and girls. I feel that it would be unattractive to both, and somehow I actually feel that girls will judge me more.
Any thoughts; is it a distraction or something you can't get over? Are you more likely to wrinkle your nose if it is a stranger instead of a friend?
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If you ask a general question this way most will answer - YES NOT ATTRACTIVE :) and THAT unless it's someone who is with or has experience with someone who has back acne and stuff.
Let's accept it that back acne or blemishes etc aren't really one of the most attractive things the way we humans perceive beauty and stuff.
Offhand even I'd say - yes not attractive.
But one thing I've known is what matters finally is chemistry between 2 people even if not love. My gf has some blemishes & acne (not laid out like a carpet but a few - yes) on her back apart from post pregnancy stretch marks and related stuff. Normally on someone I'd most probably not find any of these attractive but my chemistry with her is so strong that NOTHING or NO ONE has made me go so nuts about everything on her - so my vote always goes to the closeness & chemistry than taking it on a general perspective :)
Moreover, you mention that they are 'left over noticeable marks' and not very deep or pitted so guess it's ok.
Like my girl you may have to carefully choose the type of backless outfits probably but for a guy who finds you attractive he will sure ignore those and more or maybe even go nuts about those too the way I do on my girl lol :D1