This guy I have a crush on thinks I have a boyfriend!

[Anonymous]

This guy I have a crush on thinks I have a boyfriend because on the front of my binder I have a bunch of pics of me and this guy jimmy. Jim is my uncle but he doesn't believe me because jim is only a year. Older than me. I have pics of us together, dancing and hugging but he doesn't believe that he is my uncle! How can I convince him and maybe get his opinion on if he likes me or not? Help please and tell me what you guys think! Girls and guys please!

[lacrimati]

If you like a guy, don't carry around a binder with pictures of a guy in your realtive age, hugging or dancing, uncle or not. he'll think you're taken (and since I see you're under 18 and the guy might be too, inferring he's young, he'll move on to someone else).

i don't know how you'll convince him. show him a family picture with everyone and uncle jimmy? or pics of you guys when you were younger, together - for comparison. once he'll see you go through this effort to prove that uncle j is really your uncle, he might know you like him. but guys also overlook things like this. that's all I can tell you for now. Good Luck! :D

[Asker]

Nice advice thx! Here is a problem though; we look like twins because my mom is his older sister! Now what?

[XKateXZX]

Just because he look like your twin doesn't mean you're together... Actually it would give a whole new reason to undertand that you're related. I say take this guys advice :)

[XKateXZX]

Ummmm... That's a toughy... I would say maybe if jim goes the same school, have him come and verify that he's wrong. Like just find a way to prove it. If not, just give hints that you're still available... Touch him often, talk to him, make eye contact a LOT. But don't come off too strong. Say something like "I wouldn't date him anyway, I'm interested in someone else". And what's always fun is driving them insane trying to make them figure out who you're talking about. Ha.

[Asker]

I flirt with him Lotz and he flirts back but I'm still. Ot sure because jim goes to A diff school in a diff state!OMG problems , problems.... ( iflirt with the guy alot! Noy jim lol)

[thats-her]

well, if you already talk to the guy and y'all obviously do enough that you know he doesn't believe you so, my suggestion is when y'all are around each other just be like man, my uncle is ... you know just tell a story, or invite him to hang out and get your friends to back you up on it, it's always good to get a girl friend in there you can trust and have her chime in a few things for you

[Dhi99]

He might have thought you were joking.

Just say again in a serious voice that it is really your uncle/cousin