Do guys fantasize about their crush?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I have mutual attraction, it's obvious from all the deep, prolonged eye contact, blush, sly smiles, fidgeting, etc. I sometimes fantasize a bit about what it'd be like to be with him sexually and sometimes wonder if he fantasizes about me too sometimes the way I do him?

We've both work together and I see him 2-3 times a week (not long) but every time we are around one another we both make deep contact, sometimes catch him checking me out and he'll turn away but not always (almost as if he wants to get caught or something)...

Anyway, I think he's into me the way I'm into him and I wonder if he's lusting too and if he fantasizes too -

[CountDove]

Well, most likely he does. Men are just that way, they fantasize all the time (and not always about sex). Do you know this guy though? I mean, really know this guy? If not, you are fantasizing because of the unknown variable which doesn't conflict with your desires.

I would urge caution in letting your lusting get too far ahead of your head, especially as a woman. You should really get to know the fellow a little more before allowing yourself these indulgences. That's just my opinion, do as you wish. Conclusion: he probably thinks about you a lot.

-Count D.

[Asker]

What do men fantasize about if it's not about sex, ha? Kidding....I mean mine aren't always about sex sometimes just about having wine and chatting it up with him and I don't fantasize often about him but usually right after we've had the major eye contact I'll start to think about him and was just curious if he thinks about me too cause I know this isn't a one sided attraction as I wouldn't be this interested in him if that was the case - YOU CAN FEEL CHEMISTRY. Yep wanna know him better.

[cjwright79]

Yeah, without a doubt he does fantasize about you. If he has a healthy imagination and emotional life.

[Asker]

He seems put together - Very smart, polite to everybody, a little quiet and educated...he's also like 35 or 36.

[cjwright79]

Yeah but how big is his d*ck?

Just joking. :)

[Xenophobia]

of course. if you didn't then there would be no crush.

[Cartiphilus]

The only way you're ever going to know is to do something more like suggest having lunch together.