Do you girls want to be approached at the beach?

[DTsuras]

Yes, why not.

No, i just want to chill with my friends, don't bother me.

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[SvetlanaSavachenko]

I enjoy being approached no matter where I'm at. The beach is no exception, I may want you to take me somewhere away from the sand to fuck though. Every time I've been fucked on the beach it wasn't comfortable because sand ended up getting in my pussy and irritated it.

[DTsuras]

Wow, okay that's.. uhm.. i didn't ask anything about where you want to get fucked (?)

[Vivaldi]

I believe that person is a male.

[Jxpxtxr]

Not when I'm with friends but when I'm alone why not.
The general rule for me is, wherever I am - don't approach me if I'm with friends or look busy, in any other case you're welcome to )

[Vivaldi]

What if the guy is skinny fat?

[Jxpxtxr]

@Vivaldi Then I'll politely reject him lol

[Vivaldi]

@the_rake;

[the_rake]

that's one person, man.

anyway, you can be "in shape" without looking like the hulk.

[Jxpxtxr]

@the_rake I just prefer a toned body in general, not super lean or super buff but toned with muscles clearly visible. I work out A LOT for my body myself so I think this requirement is only fair.

[the_rake]

@Jxpxtr

that's cool. I was just saying to Vivaldi, girls are less visual on the whole but I understand that's not the same for everyone (plus you're entitled to your preferences anyway).

[DTsuras]

Why would you go at the beach alone? Beraly i see girls alone anywhere.
They are always at least with one girl friend.

[Jxpxtxr]

Because I might actually just wanna swim or go for a run or walk my dog there?
Lol believe it or not but I'm not always with friends gossiping about the people around us.

[Vivaldi]

So might skinny fat guys.

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[the_rake]

@Vivaldi

seriously, what's the point? you're just embarrassing yourself.

[Vivaldi]

@the_rake

Good then.

[the_rake]

it's a waste of energy. work on yourself, hit the gym, etc.

[Vivaldi]

Nope. I will keep being too unattractive to the opposite sex.

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@the_rake

[lumos]

I never go to the beach. And if I went I wouldn't mind getting approached, as long as he's not being sleazy/pushy and can take a hint if I happen to be uninterested or busy with my friends.

[Vivaldi]

If he is not hot?

[lumos]

@Vivaldi no more like if he's annoying and being pushy.

[FatherJack]

I would say... stay the hell away !! Most women do not like being approached by random men. I don't like being pestered by strangers when in the middle of something or want to be left in peace.

[Vivaldi]

Not only in beach, in any place they don't unless they find you hot for sure.

[Spiorad_Aisce]

I would guess most of them just want to chill with friends

[Vivaldi]

Unless he is hot (handsome, muscular) of course.

[nalaa]

Id imagine a lot of girls would be uncomfortable being in a bikini, like insecure. The beach is kinda like the gym, you dont look your best. But other than that, I dont see why not

[the_rake]

well if the guy is approaching, he obviously likes what he sees and girls that are in good shape actually look BETTER.

[nalaa]

I disagree, virtually everyone looks worse at the beach/gym. You're sweaty and sticky, wearing no make up, have a read face, your hair is a mess...

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www.kocevfashion.com/.../...e-Day-At-The-Gym-6.jpg

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[nalaa]

@the_rake

[the_rake]

meh, she looks good in all those pics. also, I hear about girls in bikinis at the beach and it reminds me of this:

sportige.com/.../Kate-Upton-Butt.jpg

Not saying every girl looks like that but someone like the girl you posted has nothing to hide.

[nalaa]

@the_rake
I know she looks good in all of them, she's pretty. I said your best and I think she looks best not working out or at the beach

And your example, well
funnyand.com/.../Rolling-my-eyes-so-hard.jpg

Life is not dirty fantasy, even Kate Upton doesn't look like that when she is actually at the beach not just posing by one, with much retouching added to it

www.enblow.com/.../...-Upton-in-Mexico-beach-3.jpg

[the_rake]

nah, she looks fine there too. it's obvious she's trying to get up there.

obviously less than average girls don't look so cute, but they don't really look so cute regardless. I know what you mean, a bathing suit a hot girl will have that extra appeal - I think I vouch for all men everywhere.

ok, here's a google img search for beach girls

daneselznick.com/.../pali-girls.jpg

^not model standard but on the whole, cute

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I don't think the one on the left's been airbrushed somehow but apart from a miniscule amount of sag, it's no issue.

miracostabeach.com/.../...osta-Beach-Runner-Up.png

etc.

[nalaa]

@the_rake I'm gonna say it a third time now because it's not sinking in, you don't look your best. Doesn't mean you look awful or ugly, just not as good as you normally would. Two pics you posted were girls posing by the beach, not actually swimming, which makes you sticky and sandy and washes away make up and makes your hair a mess, which makes you less attractive. Or at the very least, feel less attractive. Disregarding of what you think most girls are going to feel less attractive after a swim and feel more insecure at the beach.

[the_rake]

Ok, well as a man, and comparing a half-naked attractive girl to a fully clothed attractive girl, I'm going to have to beg to differ but as you please.

"Disregarding of what you think most girls are going to feel less attractive after a swim and feel more insecure at the beach."

Yeah, I can see that they might think that.

[LaVilaine]

I don't want to be approached by anyone ever, much less when I'm half naked.

[Vivaldi]

By some muscular handsome men, perhaps?

[LaVilaine]

@Vivaldi you're neither so I don't have to worry about that.

[Vivaldi]

I didn't said me. I said some muscular handsome men.

[LaVilaine]

@Vivaldi no, I don't like roid ragers.

[SinghSong]

What about if you were approached by another woman?

[LaVilaine]

@SinghSong I fail to see how that is different. Do you not understand the word "anyone"?

[SinghSong]

Okay then, fair enough. Guess you just like your privacy...

[ThePetSquirrel]

Good thing then. With your bitchy attitude, you never will get approached.

[musicbrain5]

Well if I'm at a pool or a beach (we have poor excuses for beaches here though) I'm likely with my husband, so it's in the guy's best interest to just leave me alone. 😂

[BlueFire876]

I'd rather be approached by someone at the university or in the doctors waiting room or dentist waiting room or something like that.

[the_rake]

"I'd rather be approached by someone... in the doctors waiting room or dentist waiting room"

lol wut?

[musicbrain5]

@the_rake IKR? I'd rather not engage in small talk when I'm in a waiting room. I sit there and read a magazine like everyone else, lol.

[the_rake]

right? and being in a waiting room has to be just about the most mundane sexual buzz kill on the planet. that's not the place I envision meeting the dream goddess of all my fantasies come true. now a hot beach on vacation is a different story altogether...

[BlueFire876]

oh, well I don't know its just cause im probably just bored in a waiting room, but at the beach im probably busy...

okay never mind actually yeah that might be weird

personally though, if i were approached by someone at the beach in the back of my mind i would know we could never be a thing because if he is at the beach he probably lives too far.

if he were at the same college though he is probably about the same age and he most likely lives close enough that we could hang out often.

[Shorty1991]

Yes why not, I'd like to be approached more often where ever I go. :)

[Vivaldi]

Well I can't even approach anybody in university let alone beach. Yes I am ugly.

[Shorty1991]

@Vivaldi if its any consolation I wasn't exactly 100% happy with my appearance when I was at primary and secondary school. My weight loss made my confidence grow. Your probably not even ugly. . . I think your being too hard on yourself. If you want someone to love you, you've got to learn to love yourself first.

[Vivaldi]

I can feel how bad girls see me with the attitue of them towards me.

[Shorty1991]

@Vivaldi well forget about the bad girls and focus on the good ones. I've seen your pic, your not ugly.

[Vivaldi]

I try to talk to girls in class at university but they dont even look at my face. They act like I dont exist.

[Shorty1991]

@Vivaldi they can't all be like that surely.

[Vivaldi]

Almost all. The very very majority of them.

[Vivaldi]

This must show I am bad looking

[kittykatbrat]

No, which is why I sometimes walk up to 16km to be alone.

[the_rake]

to the girls saying "no", how do you expect people ever meet each other? just sayin'.

[Vivaldi]

They only dont want non-handsome , non-muscular guys to approach them.

[the_rake]

@Vivaldi
it's about status, not looks.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28841-the-difference-between-the-good-guy-the-nice-guy-isn-t-looks-it-s

[Vivaldi]

No. Dont let this fool you. You are second class man if you are non-handsome and non muscular.

[Vivaldi]

Girls care too much about looks.

[Vivaldi]

Let's say both of them

[the_rake]

dude, I know really hot girls with unattractive guys and I know attractive guys that can't get laid for shit. you're probably basing this off your own experience. thing is, it's probably not what you think that's holding you back.

[Vivaldi]

Look at the comment where I left a comment. She says if the guy is skinny fat, he cannot apporach me. See how important looks are.

[the_rake]

@Vivaldi

oh my god, you can't validate things by the exception to the rule.

do you even empiricism bro?

[Vivaldi]

what do you mean by me empiricisming?

[the_rake]

@Vivaldi
empiricism: "the theory that all knowledge is based on experience derived from the senses. "

it's a general principle in empiricism that the exception to the rule does not disprove it - rather, that you can have a rule of thumb without it being universal (i. e. applying always).

[Vivaldi]

I like being too unattractive to the opposite sex. I am the last kind of guy a girl would date. I must be too unattractive to them girls.

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[Emmdk]

I wouldn't, but it's more because I'm self conscious when I'm wearing so little clothes

[goodmood]

They're just there to have fun with their buddies. And so am I. I wouldn't approach them.

[Vivaldi]

So are they in university.

[goodmood]

@Vivaldi I can already tell that you didn't do so well in school LOL

[Vivaldi]

I am ugly for them so I should just stay away from them because they would be bothered since I am ugly.

[Anonymous]

No, i just want to chill with my friends, don't bother me.

[Vivaldi]

I can't even approach girls in university let alone beach.

[Vivaldi]

Maybe it is because I am ugly for the opposite sex.

[Grecia]

It's fine, but don't get a boner.

[DTsuras]

sounds like a true story of yours ;)

[Miss_Behave]

I'm be blunt and say yes, if I find him hot.

[Karōshi]

I say bring a pina colada and you've got a chance!

[Jojolicious]

why not yeah, i've no problem with it

[Vivaldi]

What if the guy is skinny fat instead of being muscular?

[Jojolicious]

@Vivaldi If he understand if I say 'no i'm not interested' then everything is cool

[Vivaldi]

So being skinny fat is a big deal?

[Jojolicious]

@Vivaldi that's not my cup of tea

[Vivaldi]

So the guy has to be muscular?

[datgirl]

I never mind getting approached.

[Vivaldi]

As long as the guy is not skinny fat?

[haileyhanna]

I don't care as long as he's nice.

[Pilulu]

Why would anyone approach me?

[tortelina]

def!

[askuser]

Depends on the guy.

[Vivaldi]

If the guy is tall and muscular, right?

[askuser]

@Vivaldi Just being tall and muscular doesn't make one attractive.

[Vivaldi]

But just being skinny fat makes one unattractive, right?