Jazz is right. Personally I go to the beach with friends so I can spend time with friends. Even if I was single I wouldn't want guys coming up to me hitting on me or asking for my number. It's no because I think I'm too hot or because pft f*** guys, I'm so much better than any of them it's because I want to be with my friends. Any guy that would approach me on the beach is probably approaching me because I look good or something.
"Oh man, she looks so hot with almost nothing on that's totally the first step for having a relationship, I'll go talk to her!"
Is the only vibe I get from people coming up to me and hitting on me at the beach.
I suppose the same could be said for many situations- that guys approach girls 'cause they think she's hot. But it just feels different when I'm at the beach. It feels more pervy and gross. I don't mind guys looking at me because, well, I'm wearing a bathing suit I'm putting myself out like that and so guys are going to look. But deciding I'm skimpily dressed and hot enough to approach and try to get a number from that just strikes me the wrong way.
I don't know... I just don't like it. I don't like when guys come over and start hitting on me right away in any circumstance, just much less so when I'm not wearing as much as usual.
Haha as a single woman, I will say, that nobody truly wants to be single, and not have love in their life. Having said that, always assess the situation as best you can, and make sure it's safe, and a welcoming, inviting, and friendly environment before you approach this woman. Universally, If a girl is with a pack of other girls, it's fair game that you may get your feelings hurt, and rejected much more quickly, because all guards are up, and believe it or not it's an safety issue, but If the girl is alone, than you may have a better chance at approaching her, especially if she is paying you attention, such as: smiling, eye-contact, etc... Just be smart about it, and sometimes you have got to take risks. There is nothing more attractive and sexy than a confident man, and a considerate man, who takes the time and respect to consider this. If nothing else, you'll definitely spark an interest, and most of us women, who aren't bat ass crazy, really will appreciate your time and flattery. Good luck and thanks!
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It's not a question of where women like to be approached, it's how they like to be approached. I think most women would be flattered when a guy approaches them anywhere. But not if you come of sleazy, lame, creepy, etc... As long as you have the right approach going for you then I don't see why not. But like xxmegan said, if they don't seem interested, just walk away.
The beach was the previous place I was approaced by a woman who seemed interested in me. We weren't wearing any clothes at all since it was a nude beach. She was a great woman and we had a little bit of a fling after that
dude there are a lot of gals out there you kno, some like it some dont...
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Sometimes. It says that you find her or her body attractive enough to be interested, which is a big weight lifted off of many girls' shoulders. However, some days, girls just want to be left alone. I don't think there's any sure-fire way to tell if she's approachable or not, it really depends on the day and girl.
I’m going to lay it down as simple as I can… you would love if a hot girl came up to you to talk, if a girl you thought was ugly tried to hit on you it would be uncomfortable. If your going for girl out your league good luck. If you hit on girls that you are more attractive marketplace ways they would love your attention
Yes. I for example travel to the shore with my family only. I love my little brother, but he can be so tiring sometimes. It would be so fun to have my age mate or someone older to talk to and have fun with. =)
yes...if a nice guy approached me,i will feel so happy...but.. the most important thing is you really a nice guy or a cool guy...except that ... no...
lol some girls go to the beach to enjoy themselves and watch the eye candy roll by. Getting a number from one is like the all time high for that day. Beach is where you can have fun and flirt
You can, but if they reject you, don't stay in the area and watch them. Move onnnn. Don't be creepy.
It can happen. There's no reason why not, at least to me.
If you were really something, the tension enough would be torture.
definitely they do, woman are flattered by being hit on, doesn't matter when or where
and the beach is one of those places
No. Being almost half naked doesn't make me feel comfortable talking to strangers.
i'm sure they do
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