If you were guessing that I am talking about myself then you are correct. I am probably the least general liked person worldwide. I speak my mind regardless of how people feel and only trust those who have earned it. I have a never quit attitude and I keep pushing forward when times get rough. I also refuse to walk with a smile on my face, although I have a beautiful smile. I have qualities and values that would make a woman want no other man. But because of my demanor, you judge me as undatable refusing to even try to understand the rough road I have traveled so far. You won't even give me a chance because you are afraid to let someone as independent, bold, and determined as me into your life. Why? I don't know.
"I speak my mind regardless of how people feel and only trust those who have earned it"I never was liked but I was always respected. You females claim you want a man who values equality, is honest, and will stick by you through thick and thin. Unfortunately you will never find a man with those exact traits because they exist in guys like me, guys who you consider undatable. The guys similar to me treat our women right because we have been through so much bullshit when it comes to females that we are determined to prove our worth as a boyfriend. We don't fall in love easily because everybody who we tried to love stomped on our hearts and put it in the garbage disposal. The people who are supposed to unconditionally love you, people like your mother, constantly belittle you and critize you when you are struggling. Daddy never around, no friends for support, we are forced to become men on our own.
No man is an island no matter how independent he is. A king needs a queen and thats been the case since Adam and Eve. But unfortunatly you consider us undatable. Why? We will never know. But if you do attempt to date us, please have paitence. You will be kept at a distance while we get to know you. Once you show that you truly love us and will support us through thick and thin, only then we will let our guard down. And you will in turn be the happiest woman in the world because we will cherish you like no other man can, due to the experiences we went through growing up.
So when you see a guy like me on the street, do not judge him and write him off as undatable. Instead walk up to him and talk to him. Ask him questions and try to get to know him. If you like him and want him as your boyfriend be paitent as he will not let his guard down until he knows that you're sincere. A man with a me vs the world attitude may seem undatable but in fact they are the most valuable men on this planet.
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