How to prove that I'm not flirting?

[imprezA]

I've been trying to court this girl. I love her and she loves me too. But the problem of us not being together is because I'm charismatic and a lot of girls talk to me. I've used to flirt with every girl I can, but I've kinda changed 5months before I knew her. She doesn't trust me because of this, how can I prove to her that I'm not flirting anymore and want to walk the endless road with her holding my hand ?

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Btw I had a girlfriend during that time.

[useranonymous]

She first has to understand that about you. When guys are attractive/charming they will have girls approaching them - it's life. And she needs to be able to trust that no matter who approaches you - you won't do anything because insecurity, jealousy, and worry never seem to work in relationships.

If a girl approaches you that you do not know when you're out together - don't be rude necessarily (for instance ignore her) but just sort of brush her off, tell her off (nicely). If it's a girl that you used to know (or even sometimes in the previous stranger situation) introduce your girlfriend to her (mainly when it's a girl you know). That way you make it clear that this girl is who you're interested in, and she gets to see you show other girls that she's who you want thus making her feel more secure.

Explain to her that she is the one you care about and that no matter who approaches him she's the one you want to be with and the one that you're going to be coming home with/to at the end of the night.

[Mande1985]

I just have to say that is the most awesome thing I've read posted on here by a guy. Maybe you should just tell her all of this that you just posted. I mean, she needs to trust you. Sounds like you are definitely dedicated to her. Something see needs to see because if not she might end up losing you.. which would be really really sad.