Platonic Cuddling?

[Anonymous]

A few nights ago, my closest guy friend slept over. We spent most of the night cuddling, but ended up sleeping in different beds. I believe the cuddling was completely platonic, but some of of friends think the opposite.

We spent most of the time spooning with my back to his chest. He would change the position of his hand from holding mine to it being wrapped around my stomach to it being on my thigh, almost touching my butt. We alternated our cuddling position a few times over the course of several hours. At one point, he kissed my neck and touched my boob. He also carressed my face and played with my hair a lot (which I don't think is weird because I always play with my guy friends' hair, but my other friends disagree).

I don't think this is anything other than platonic because he's done it before with our mutual close guy friend. The guy I was cuddling with is bisexual and has a small thing for our mutual friend. He also said he had a thing for me too, but I think it may have been just a joke. Also, this guy has little experience with dating, so I know he's not a player. The only people I've ever heard him mention being into are celebrities.

Sorry this was long, my friends have just started to worry me that he may have viewed it as something more than I did.

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+1 y

He also took his shirt off because he said he was hot.

[BearsAnswers]

Not platonic. As soon as he kissed your neck it was no longer platonic. Touching the boob is also very obviously not platonic.

Cuddling CAN be platonic, but that wasn't. It was subtle, he trying very hard to not 'spook the squirrel', but he was clearly nudging it towards being more.

It's not that he viewed it as something more in the sense that he won't necessarily take the fact that you cuddled to mean you are now an item, or anything like that. He will be aware of the fact that it was just cuddling to you. But in his head it was more, and he wanted it to be more. He will most likely be aware of what it was on your end though. Unless he is really dense (which is possible).

[Goran_]

I cuddle with my female friends as we're really close and it doesn't matter. I dont grab their boob or kiss them though, an ass grab is as far as I go. You won't know what he thought about it unless you ask.

[apple24]

girl! NOPPE! lol

[apple24]

haha I don't let guys hug me haha! So hugging him like that would mean its more.

[ksoma]

it is platonic. but he is also hoping it becomes more that that. subtle touching is his way to look for signs that you would be open to more.

[TripleAce]

With bi sexuals its possible

They are internally confused at times and can be hot n cold with either sex but still feel cuddly

[DizzyAster]

See what you got here is an FFG, frustrated Friend-zoned guy. He's using any method to get close to you.
however, you are sending some crazy message with spooning a guy. That relationship stuff.

[jman46241]

It may have been more in his mind.. I think you should leave the cuddling for someone that you are dating.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Yeah, he's definitely bisexual. That doesn't sound platonic at all. Did he get a boner?

[Octavius]

There was nothing platonic about that.

[Tarvold]

It's most definitely not platonic.

[UhDopeDude]

Some guys do some guys will get the wrong idea

[JetPack01]

You're high or obtuse, aren't you?

[hsshannah96]

Not platonic.