No. Cuddling (which is basically extended hugging) is not platonic under any circumstances. A quick hug *can* be platonic, but is still likely to be romantically, if not sexually, charged--so it's best to just not fuck with it.
I get that their relationship isn't technically your responsibility, but you should've at least shut it down. You and I both know that's what you would've wanted to happen if you were in his girlfriend's position. Better yet, you could've asked her if she was okay with it directly. If so, no harm done. If not, she found out when she otherwise never would've known.
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It's not acceptable. It's cheating. If I saw my girlfriend cuddling with another guy, I would break up with her and beat the shit out of the guy. One thing is gonna lead to another with this guy. At first, it's cuddling, next it's kissing, then after that, it's sex. Ultimately, you'll be in a relationship with a cheater who will most likely cheat on you in the end. I suggest staying away from him.
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I personally don't have any issues with it as long as I feel the relationship is stable or if I was in an open relationship. Most of my life I've had female friends that I cuddled with and their boyfriend's and I would have a talk and come to the mutual understanding that I wasn't with them and didn't have any interest in them sexually.
You are helping him cheat. You are even planning to do this when his girlfriend is specifically not there. You are a cheater and so is he. Can you really not see that? If it was your boyfriend and he was making and tounge cuddle someone at a convention that you would not be attending would you be okay with this? And if she is so okay with this like he says, then why is he planning to do it behind her back? Seriously! You dont see this?
He cheated.
I would dump you too if you were my girlfriend.I don't think this guys intentions are honourable.
yea... ok. this is lame AF
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